My girlfriend and I are together for 2 months already. We went to a party and I was with my girlfriend. My girlfriend's friend went also. Some other girl that I thought was hot and is actually my girlfriend's friend claimed that she wanted to have sex with me. She even kissed me. I just brushed her off and told her that I am already dating a girl. I didn't want to have sex with my girlfriend's friend because I am already have a girl. I didn't tell my girlfriend. Did my girlfriend set me up to see if I am always loyal to her only? and plus, did I do the right thing by not having sex with my girlfriend's friend? my girlfriend and I didn't start having sex nor we are not going to start soon.
2007-03-16 04:52:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You did the right thing by not sleeping with her. I don't know if your girlfriend set you up..but I have a feeling she probably didn't. Stay away from the other girl. If she does it again tell your girlfriend.
2007-03-16 05:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you did nothing wrong in my eyes. I would not be in that situation again because of the fact that you think she is hot..temptation can be a tricky thing. I don't know your girlfriend so I wouldn't know if she set you up. Girls are pretty sneaky though. Of course you did the right thing by not getting with the girl. Just avoid the chick altogether. If it bothers you, I think you should tell your girlfriend about that chick. My boyfriend and I are open with things like that and even though I don't like it at times, it makes us trust each other more. Good luck. Your girlfriend is very lucky!
2007-03-16 11:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did good by not cheating on your girlfriend. Give it some time you just been going out for two months. Let your relationship grow first then see what happens. I wouldnt say anything to your girlfriend about her friend that maybe a double bladed sword it could back fire on you. Let her worry bout her friends.
2007-03-16 12:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by NickyNawlins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by NOT having sex with your girls
friend.
1) girls do that kind of thing........try & set guys up to see if they are faithful
2) your girlfriend would have found out and you would have lost her
3) you would have ended up feeling like crud because you
cheated and you dont sound like the cheating type.
4) telling your girlfriend would just cause problems w/ her
friends and chances are the friend would have turned it around and made it sound like you were the one hitting on her and, unfortunately, your girlfriend would have believed her friend.
You sound like a good guy.......stay true to yourself and your morals.
2007-03-16 11:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing , and still doing the right thing by not having sex with your girlfriend until you both feel the time is right , and too answer your question if your girlfriend set you up I doubt that she would use her friend for that , so no probably not , why would she be so devious ?
2007-03-16 12:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. I don't think your girlfriend set you up.
If you really like your girlfriend then don't cheat on her because that will ruine a special thing.
2007-03-16 11:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im pretty sure that what you did is right by not having sex with your girlfriends friend
in plus there isnt any telling if her friend is aid/hiv free.
so you indeed did the right
keep up the good work
2007-03-16 12:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by LeShandra C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue to trust your current girlfriend. Don't assume she put you to a test automatically. The friend was attracted to you, most likely because you are a stand up sounding kind of guy.
Also, I think you should be honest with your girl. Tell her one of her friends came on to you. "How much of a friend do you consider "jane" to be?, because she said she...and she tried..." "I'm with you, I'm not a cheater, I like/love you" and watch your friends...ok?
2007-03-16 12:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man - you should have ploughed that hole like no tomorrow. You cant be in love yet, you aint even pumped your own bird therefore any sticky emotions are not present or clear. Anyhow its only ever true love when you get anal im afraid. your loss i think. you were wrong but the next time some easy floozie whos a bit boozy comes along you should show her your pissed rythm!!! sweeeeeeeet.
2007-03-16 11:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by nick b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing. so stop beating on yourself. and it probably was a test, but you passed with flying colors. congratulations. you are a special guy and your girlfriend is lucky to have you.
2007-03-16 12:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋