She keeps on bn a jerk so i will be a jerk back to her and she yells at me bcuz im bn a jerk.what to do?
2007-03-16 04:44:39 · 24 answers · asked by Kelsey C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i choose to ignore her but when i do she acts really nice and when i forgive her she yells at me more and when she yells and its gotten to a point to where we have yelle right in the middle of class.
2007-03-16 05:06:47 · update #1
you guys are be haters .... stop being mean and say positive things about eachother to one another and others
2007-03-16 04:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to make up with her bcuz shes bn a jerk dat doesnt mean u have to act lyke one with her so just act normal and yall make up very soon
2007-03-16 04:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by LeShandra C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two wrongs dont make a right. Be the bigger person and stop being a jerk........see how your friend responds.
If your "friend" keeps being a jerk then try to get to the root of the problem. Otherwise, move on because REAL friends
aren't jerks to each other.
2007-03-16 05:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really silly but it really works:
Get two cards, 4x5 index, for you and her. write on one side 4 catagories: mind, spirit, body, heart
otherside 4 catagories: now!, do. , need/want, rest/recoop
each fill in with one word the catagories and then exchange and discuss.
Problem is you don't really know one another and are trying to force your ideas. This causes the real truth and it's not so bad. but you physically have to do the cards.
It's better than a councilor and cheap. ha.
2007-03-16 04:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if shes being a jerk to you be the bigger person and ignore her. and she gets even madder because your ignoring her then just walk away from her. And if you want to be friends than i think you need to Work A LOT HARDER at being friends then you are now
2007-03-16 04:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by sharaea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and have a talk with her, let her know that she is upsetting you when she acts that way, maybe you both can come to an agreement as to why you BOTH get upset with eachother so much. Good friends are hard to come by, cherish what you have had and what you will have in the years to come, Good-luck!
2007-03-16 04:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by CaReBeAr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a jerk. Don't wind each other up.
If she's being a jerk, learn to deal with it. In a proper fashion, not with yelling.
It takes two to fight.
2007-03-16 04:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should not be friends for awhile why are you friends to begin with?
People do grow apart maybe thats whats happening you are going in adifferant direction that your friend is remember people come into your life for a reason a season or a lifetime.
2007-03-16 04:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by squekie0874 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys should just chill for a while. take a few days to calm down and then talk to eachother in a mature way. and if one of you is a jerk then try to stay calm and not fight back. this happened to me a while ago as well. it just takes a lil time
2007-03-16 04:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down and talk about without arguing and tell each other what you don't like about the other. Let each other know that you want to remain friends, but there needs to be a change.
2007-03-16 04:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by **~~ShAwTy Is ThE sHiT~~** 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would really think about this one - she doesnt sound like a friend as they are not there to give you greif - or on the othere hand, if it is out of character then there may be somthing up so try to talk to her.
2007-03-16 04:53:49 · answer #11 · answered by Minxy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋