Its getting to that time where the days are no longer magical between me and my fiance and I need ways to cook them back up again.
2007-03-16 04:40:01 · 11 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mini spontanious vacations
picnics
walks around the block while holding his hand
Leaving cute little notices on the bathroom mirror for each other
Get those poetry magnets or words that go on the fridge and make a game out of it...everytime you get something out..You have to spell something cute out to the other person
2007-03-16 04:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can have fun with your clothes on! You need some spontaneity and surprises, some firsts... and that doesn't mean sex. What do you both have an interest in that you haven't done for a while or haven't done at all?
Ever taken a limo through a McDonald's drive-through and requested that Ronald McDonald serve you?
Ever gone bowling in an Elvis costume?
Ever gone to Karaoke and got up and deliberately improvised the words to a song?
Ever had his and hers massages and asked for your hair to be brushed and your nails done while they're at it?
lol... I'm not really this naughty.
Hope you find the spark again.... make time to think of "firsts" you could do together.
2007-03-16 12:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married foe a while, and I have found that sex is not the only thing that should excite you about your partner.
What about his mind? Do you talk, joke, play, read together, go places, have a dinner where the object of the evening is to enjoy each other's company, not to get an expensive dinner so you will end up at home in the sack.
Just enjoy being with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Trust me in 50 years, sex WILL NOT be the #1 thing on your mind.
2007-03-16 11:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by El Hombre de los Libros 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it...the butterfly feelings do not last forever......love is patient, love is kind....love your man...to me, just sharing my life with my man is enough for me. We like to swim laps together, and here is Chicago, when it isn't 30 degrees below zero outside, you will find us jogging at 5:30am.....maybe you two can work out together too....its a lot of dun, you guys can stay in shape and be healthy, and its fun to acheive fitness goals together!
Also, we like to shop for groceries together and then cook together on Saturday nights and drink some wine...that is always fun too!
Have fun! The simplest moments are the ones that bind the two of you!!!
2007-03-16 11:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing "stuff" - go out to movies, have a picnic, spend a day in the park, go to the zoo, take tours of local attractions, that kind of thing. Sounds like you need to "re-connect", and a good way to do that is to just spend some time together doing interesting things. Good luck!
2007-03-16 11:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by taotedan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by thinking like a kid again--go roller skating --at first he will say no, but once you're both on skates you'll feel so silly all you'll both do is laugh, and hang on to each other and they play good music these days. or go to the zoo, you have to think like a kid if you want fun.
2007-03-16 11:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
replay ur first date that should be fun and you wont have trouble finding things to talk about because u can talk about what u did last time u were there.
congrats on getting engaged
hope i helped
good luck
2007-03-16 11:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why nonsexual, maybe thats the problem.
2007-03-16 11:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you try to get to know each other and try talking
2007-03-16 13:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i dont know all i do to have fun with my husband is sex
2007-03-16 11:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋