He says it's mean, but I think it's funny! I enjoy making him wait even if it's only for awhile. I will give him lots of sex tonight, but the look on his face when I talk dirty and then deny him is so great! Am I a jerk or what?
2007-03-16 04:32:21 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Haha, if he did it to me, I'd be so turned on right now.
Being date raped? Jeez, you can't rape the willing! If it were any other guy, maybe. Date rape isn't a joke. Shame on you!
2007-03-16 04:39:59 · update #1
Read the details, I said lots of sex later tonight!!!!! I'm not sending him off anywhere unless you mean sexual bliss.
2007-03-16 04:42:42 · update #2
Haha, yes, he knows he's getting some later! I don't ever actually deny him later, that is mean!!
2007-03-16 04:51:02 · update #3
No, it's awesome to tease. It makes things way way better later. You're not a jerk, you're fun and playful
2007-03-16 04:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, it depends on your relationship with him. If it is constantly one with lots of jokes and you guys understand each other most of the time, if not always, then it is okay.
But he'd already said it was mean. No, that depends how he said it. Was he saying it in a nice way or was he really upset? If the latter, then I am sure you have gone too far and better stop doing that and apologise.
Hey, if you do this too often, it might even backfire and he will not want you anymore!
Always remember the saying that one will not appreciate the things he/she has until it is gone. Don't risk testing the relationship. Once gone....it will take a loooooong time to repair.
If you really love him, have fun during the sex, not before!
2007-03-16 05:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by ah_loong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself. You say you will give him lots of sex tonight, but does he know that? And if so, how is he supposed to believe you this time if you've said the same words and denied him so many times before?
You think it's funny, but you told us that he says it's mean. Why continue to do it if he clearly doesn't enjoy it?
You're playing games with him, and karma is a *****. You enjoy making him thirsty and denying him any water, so don't be surprised when he gets a drink from someone else.
2007-03-16 04:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not a jerk. This is your way of foreplay. It is teasing. It is very common and for some couples is a great deal of fun. I do it, and that night's love making is usually quite exhilarating. Tonight there will be a payoff to the teasing, so your not leaving him with blue b***s. Have fun!
Some people are so uptight. Good grief, you and your lover are making a MOOD for sex, which is wonderful. People complain about never being in the mood for sex...hmmm....I wonder why....could it be that they don't take the time to set the stage for it?
2007-03-16 04:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Grow up & stop advertising your sex life in the forum here. You enjoy the attention don't you? And you have no qualms about hurting someone "even if it is only for a little while". The word 'jerk' doesn't begin to describe you.
2007-03-16 04:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Possible power tripper, maybe. Playin' sexy sex games is a must, it's the best. However, playin' mind games with your sex can take away what was so sexy to begin with. Don't play like you're holdin' out on him, flip the script and just take it instead.
2007-03-16 04:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by TooNDivA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's mean. A little provocative teasing is one thing, but to flat out deny him is another. Sounds like you really enjoy having this power and like to rub it in his face.
2007-03-16 04:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by Athena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two can play at this game. I'd just pretend you were out of your mind and would be back in a few days, but try to appear hurt.
2007-03-16 04:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if it doesn't bother him fine. Whatever floats your boat. On a personal note females who conducted themselves as such were ususlly termed a rather derrogartory name in my day. "Charlie-Tango" to be precise.
But...if its a prelude to foreplay and it's a thrill for the both of you then why stop? In fact...why even ask if anyone really gives a goddamn. I for one don't.
2007-03-16 04:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is mean. You are a jerk. You give women a bad name. And you are putting yourself in danger of being date raped.
2007-03-16 04:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋