Getting his attention, make yourself stand out from the other girls or women around him. In a crowded room, establish eye contact with him from across the room, try to hold his gaze for a few second, then smile and look away like youre shy. That usually does the trick...
Dont keep doing it or you look like a stalker, but once or twice is fine, then ignore him like he turned invisible.
Use 3rd party people to draw you two together, like if you know something about him... like he's a football player. Say to one of his friends, "do u know someone whose into football, i want to buy my dad a gift and dont know anything about it".
Ask them a question about one of his interests, his job, his clothes, his classes, that they KNOW only he could easily answer. Basically making HIM the 'go to guy'. Thats a great "in", works like a charm everytime.
Or you can try this one, giving a`little debate. While standing near him, (if you observed him enough) make an intelligent comment about something he's well versed in. This worked to get a boyfriend of mine. I said something outloud to my friends about the Masons, cause I saw the symbol on his clothes. He quickly walked over to "correct" me and then that opened a very interesting discussion.
Make it an intelligent comment... but leave it open for discussion. Dont pick an argument, like "All republicans suck"!!! LOL... "Say I dont see where Bush is going with this new Iraqi withdrawal..." if he's into politics, he will get "hard"(excuse my french...lol) hearing a woman, or girl discussing his topic of interest.
try it, it works
2007-03-16 04:45:04
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answered by too_hot4words 2
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umm are you even friends with this guy? if so just talk to him..i mean i fell in love with a friend of mine too...and i'm going throught the same thing kinda..
he doesn't know..
but lately i have just been talkin to him..don't say you like something just because he does though..thats a turn off..be up front with him...be urself
2007-03-16 11:33:26
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answered by trpt110ny 2
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Well maybe you should tell him. When you go home think real hard about what your going to say. Gurl why dont you just write a note and stick it in his locker. I really hope this helps!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 11:36:14
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answered by bestsaxplaya 1
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Wear nice clothes do your hair nice sit at his lunch table if in school, be around him then when your talking one day just randomly pop the question,(wanna go out with me) if he says no say, but can we still be friends?
2007-03-16 11:50:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Call him talk to him try to make him notice u.
2007-03-16 12:27:00
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answered by Smiley 1
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Don't do what ASIANGIRL said, don't do something crazy or something stupid.... believe me that won't work. Good luck.
2007-03-16 11:37:46
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answered by butterflies_are_free_03 2
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FIRST,BE CALM ABOUT IT,DON'T LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU LIKE HIM THAT MUCH,JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL,BECAUSE THAT'S ALL YOU REALLY CAN DO RIGHT NOW,
2007-03-16 11:32:45
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answered by roll tide 3
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you need to ask guys about this.
i cant help you but i know people who could.
2007-03-16 11:47:24
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answered by Auron P 3
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love is good
2007-03-16 12:07:52
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answered by Anonymous
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call him but don't tell your name!
2007-03-16 11:34:02
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answered by nikaramirez30 2
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