My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 2 and a half months. We don't do it everyday.. Maybe 2 times a week. Sometimes we skip a week.. you know. Just whenever we feel the urg. A lot of the time it still hurts whenever he goes in. He was the first person I've had sex with. I just don't know if it's because I haven't fully stretched to fit yet or if he is just you know. When should it stop hurting?
2007-03-16 03:55:25 · 10 answers · asked by oceansofblue321 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It only hurts when he first goes in..
then well, you know how it goes.
2007-03-16 03:59:30 · update #1
Thank you.
There is quite a bit of foreplay.
Meaning there is definitely enough lubricant.
Sorry to be so detailed with my problems.
He does take it very, very slow at first.
And he asks if he needs to slow down or if he needs to stop.
It doesn't hurt bad enough for him to stop, but he asks just to make sure.
After he gets all the way in, it doesn't hurt. It's great.
2007-03-16 04:13:07 · update #2
Wow, I dont know. For me it stopped hurting like around the 5th time. Does it just hurt when he enters, or the entire time. If it hurts when he just enters it can be because it really is'nt that open yet or because ur not aroused. If it hurts the entire time it can be because maybe ur hymen hasn't completely broke open yet.
2007-03-16 04:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be blessed in that area (not the best way to start out). Or you may not be fully stretched to fit. Plus, the more often you do it, the less it hurts. If you don't do it for like a week, then when you do, it could start off uncomfortable. Especially since this is new to you. He should also take that into consideration and be gentle with you for a while. Also, the more you concentrate on the pain....the more you will feel it. It WILL stop hurting in time.
2007-03-16 11:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Keetta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity to my husband when I was 15
and it hurt me for about 6 months and we had sex about 3 times a week.How often you have sex has alot to do with it. I don't mean to be gross but my husband is large so even now 7 years later it can still be a little uncomfortable when we first start, so I think that it just really depends on you and him.
2007-03-16 11:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by goodgirl5567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not having sex that often, so yeah ittl hurt for a while, cuz ur still stretching down to ur regualr size. I've been having sex for like a year nad a half and it still hurts sometimes, especially after not having sex for a week (my period week). It just means u have a tight vagina. Cherish it. lol
2007-03-16 16:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Carolyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not be painful. If you are experiencing any pain, please see your OB/GYN.
Try to include more foreplay so that your vagina is more lubricated. You might also consider using a lubricant to help. Ask your boyfriend to take it slow and make sure that you are communicating with him when it hurts so that he can stop or adjust his position. You can try different positions to see if that helps.
Hope this helps. You do not need to be in pain when you are having sex.
2007-03-16 11:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by godre 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not bragging but I'm well endowed and it all about giving the girl lots of foreplay and making sure everything is well lubricated. If he is large as I am he needs to take it slow and easy and make sure you are enjoying it. I love satisfying a girl and not hurting her, that's what it's all about.
2007-03-16 11:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if hes your first it usually hurts for a while before you get use to it:)
2007-03-16 18:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by lynn21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they may be the problem, ( you havent fully stretched to fit him yet)
2007-03-16 11:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by tre_132mp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say other than you should speak to your ob/gyn about it.
2007-03-16 10:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some Kentucky Jelly (KY)
2007-03-16 11:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋