im 17 and still a virgin but all my cousins (who r older than me) tell me that it hurts the first time,.........is that true?
2007-03-16 03:51:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It may hurt a little bit, but make sure the guy you are with knows to be gentle and you should be fine. Just make sure you're really ready before you do it and make sure it's with a guy who will respect you enough to take it slow so that you can enjoy it.
2007-03-16 03:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on several factors. First, if you have an intact hymen, you may feel a little discomfort when it is torn. Second, if you are nervous, you may tend to tense your muscles making penetration painful. Third, if you are not lubricated enough, you might have some discomfort because of friction.
The first one can't be helped, but the other two can. Make sure you have plenty of foreplay before you even let him attempt penetration. This will both relax you and get your lubrication going.
2007-03-16 11:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a little bit but sometimes it hurts your emotions more. so make sure it is something you really want to do and with someone that you won't feel bad about loosing your virginity too when your older. I am not saying that your thinking about it now but keep that in mind when the time does arrive. Good luck hon.
2007-03-16 10:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it hurts a bit honey, you are opening something that is closed, it hurts more for some women than other, it depends on how flexible your body is. Some women who practice sports and other type of activities get more flexible and hurts a little less or not at all.
Remember that everyone is different and we all perceive pain in different ways. What may be pain for some can be pleasure for others
2007-03-16 10:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by lysa24 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes the first time it hurts and is really uncomfortable. The second time is pretty awesome though. You should make sure that you are completely aroused before trying the first time and make sure that you stop if the pain becomes unbearable. After a few minutes the pain becomes easier to handle and it is less uncomfortable.
2007-03-16 10:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jada 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are things in life that hurt much, much worse. It depends on his size for one, if he is average sized then it may only pinch a little. If he is larger it will definately be uncomfortable. Only do so if you are ready, and if he is caring, he will be gentle and go slow untill it feels comfortable for you.
2007-03-16 10:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by amandalynnesmith19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find a really "small" guy.........you won't even know it's in you. I recommend a midget -- they're cute and cuddly, and they deserve a little love after roaming halfway around the world trying to throw a ring into a volcano!
2007-03-16 10:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is awesome that you are still a virgin...... yes its a bit uncomfortable at first and can be for the first few times after a while when that body part starts to stretch out is when it becomes more enjoyable.
2007-03-16 10:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by ompie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It can be uncomfortable, everyone is different, for some people it can be very painful and for others it is just weird and uncomfortable. For me it wasn't so painful, but it was definitely uncomfortable, i was just totally relaxed, plus it helps to completely trust your partner.
2007-03-16 10:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. not always. and not very much usually. when you stub your toe you don't think that the world is going to end. this is just a bit of uncomfortable, not really painful, especially if you know how to relax your muscles. that will definitely help.
2007-03-16 10:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋