I'm extemely hormonal and although I'm not fighting alot with my husband, but when we get into it, I find myself screaming alot. My rants only last 5 minutes, but I'm scared that those 5 minutes of yelling will cause a miscarriage or something. I try to control myself, but it just comes out of no where.
Plus, he wants me to rest alot and says, if you need anything just call me. Well I will yell and yell out his name to no avail. Then finally I will find him sitting and listening to his music through hearphones.
2007-03-16 03:15:53 · 10 answers · asked by Milla's Mom 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
All out screaming raises your blood pressure. Tell him, if you want me to call you, then why do you have headphones on? Resting is good, but you also need to move around and walk. It's good for you and will help with labor. Your hormones will come into check eventually (even though still out of whack, but you'll handle them better). Good luck to you! :)
2007-03-16 03:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all those hormone changes making you feel and act crazy! Don't worry, the screaming will not cause you to miscarry, however you should do your best calm yourself and to not get over stressed as to avoid any "early" pregnancy trouble. When you feel things escalating and your anger welling, try to keep it at bay. Walk to another room, take deep breaths, and even try splashing a little water on your face. Most importantly think of the little one your carrying, and you'll regain control. As for hubby, mens insensitivity seems enormous when we're pregnant. Try letting him know how you feel, and tell him your not sure why your feeling this way, but you need his patience and understanding right now. You are both obviously happy about the baby, so indulge each other, this is a joyus time for both of you. Good Luck!
2007-03-16 10:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it is just your hormones. You can be happy one minute and so pissed of the next, most of the time for something silly. Yes doctors tell you to take it easy for the baby which is true, But if its only every now and then its fine. Not like all day everyday, but at least once a day is ok. But dont worry about, dont get to stressed out you are still early in your pregnany and stress can cause a miscarriage. Take care and good luck!
2007-03-16 10:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dulce/Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got some pretty outdated and old fashioned misconceptions about pregnancy. Screaming isn't going to make you miscarry. Also, you're not helpless, so there's no reason that you should have to rest if you don't feel tired. You can do things for yourself, and you should. So long as you're not standing on the counters to clean the tops of the cupboards or anything like that, your baby will be fine. You can tell your husband I said that.
2007-03-16 10:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by snorkweezl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got alot of anger built up. It's good to get it out ~ even if it takes screaming. Don't worry, you're not going to hurt the baby, but since it doesn't seem to get you anywhere, you might want to try a different outlet for your anger. Can you get out and walk instead? Perhaps take up yoga and meditation????
It would feel much better than screaming and will be better for your baby to be around when it's here. Nobody wants to be around someone who's sreaming and loud all the time.
2007-03-16 10:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby can't hear until around 20 weeks so you are safe there, but you don't want to get too stressed out, they are doing studies now showing adverse affects on babies whose mothers had alot of stress during pregnancy. I know the hormones can make you crazy, but when you get feeling really upset maybe you could try taking a bath (not too hot) or taking a drive or something.
2007-03-16 10:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screaming isnt nessesarily bad for the baby but Stress is, Try taking a deep breath or walking out of the room when you feel the need to yell or get mad!..Its hard i know :p (especially when pregnant) but dont stress yourself out :( its not good for either of you (you and the baby)! Goodluck and hopefully he works with you and your needs very soon!!! :)
2007-03-16 10:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by babygirlz3n2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screaming will NOT cause miscarriage. You do need to try to relax more. When you feel like screaming, take a few deep breaths and count to 20.
2007-03-16 10:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Rwebgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screaming is OK it can help release stress. I disagree with Cowgrl about it being stress it is a sign of stress. But it also releases stress.
you are only 6.5 weeks pregnant. now is the time to remain active. While you still have the energy.
2007-03-16 10:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by geekgirl33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well and stress durhing you pregnacy is not good for you! The yelling is a form of stress so try to refian from it if you can.
2007-03-16 10:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋