If he hasn't been in touch for 3 months i think i would give it a miss
good luck in whatever you choose to do
Cancer and Gemini
When Gemini and Cancer come together, it may be a rather curious partnership. Gemini is intellectual, while Cancer is sensitive and emotional. Gemini may entrance Cancer with a chivalrous nature and a silver tongue, causing the cautious Crab to come out of its shell quicker than it normally would. Cancer, on the other hand, can teach Gemini how to slow down and appreciate the workings of the world around them. Troubles may arise if Cancer feels unappreciated or ignored by Gemini. Both Signs must understand that although they come from entirely different directions, it is possible for them to meet happily in the middle.
Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth, while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini is very protective of Cancer and takes care of them; they can be the Cancerian's knight in shining armor. In return, Cancer provides Gemini with a happy domestic life and emotional security. Sometimes Cancer might build an idealized image of their Gemini partner or be overly possessive. Gemini can help by reassuring the Cancer partner that they are loved and cherished. Additionally, Gemini needs to listen to Cancer: The Crab is strongly instinctive, and their advice can help Gemini avoid emotional dramas and remain in situations where they are needed.
Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury and Cancer is ruled by the Moon. Gemini has an open, expressive nature that appeals to Cancer, who often stifles feelings and emotions. Cancer can be store up intense, feminine energy, and Gemini can help them learn to release this energy. The Moon controls tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life; and Cancer emanates powerful feelings while Gemini bubbles with ideas. Cancer tends to be intuitive, and can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate life instead of rushing on to the next thing.
Gemini is an Air Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using emotional drive and intellect to get things done. Cancer can help Gemini warm up and learn to be gentle, while Gemini teaches Cancer to come out of their shell. But Cancer can be emotionally overpowering, too much Water dampening Gemini's enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Air can blow ripples across the Water and leave Cancer emotionally tattered. Gemini and Cancer must talk openly and freely to ensure their balance is maintained.
Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Signs. Cancer is an initiator while Gemini is more open to other ideas. They make a great team when they work together. On the surface, Gemini is the leader, bravely facing a challenge, but Cancer will be indirectly in charge through emotion and the ability to weigh the situation. It's important for both to be willing to meet halfway. And each must learn to accept giving in at the right time.
The best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer relationship is that -- once they realize they're allies -- they can soar to great heights together. Gemini is thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas behind the scenes. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs a fulfilling relationship.
2007-03-16 05:18:45
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answered by ♥gigi♥ 7
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Gemini + Cancer
Air + Water = Rain
As Cancer is a very sensitive and emotional sign, being ruled by the Moon, you may often not understand why they feel the way they do. Their moods can change frequently, and this will bother you.
You are a more intellectual and thoughtful person than Cancer, living in your head rather than your heart. You need to know the whys and wherefores. A Cancer won’t understand why you don’t feel what they feel.
There is an obvious chasm between your nature and Cancer’s nature, and the two of you will have to cross it before you can get anywhere in a relationship. But it may just be a matter of accepting that you are different!
This could play out as each of you taking on the tasks you have the talent for. This will bring out the best in each personality — Cancer can do well on the feeling tasks, and you will do well on the reasoning ones. If you do this, the relationship will stand a chance of going forward.
We would have to wonder whether this was the basic difference between Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise during their marriage. Nicole is a Gemini and would have dealt with things more rationally than Tom. Tom, being a Cancer, would have been moody and temperamental.
Physically you may find it difficult to train your mind into a less rational way of relating to the Cancerian. Cancer wants you to feel, and to connect with their feeling, but this may be too hard for you — you love to think and talk about your thoughts in the bedroom.
If Cancer doesn’t reciprocate, you may fall into the trap of thinking Cancer is denying your intellectual worthiness. This would be a mistake. It’s just those different styles and different needs raising their heads again.
Remember, there are non-verbal means of communicating. Cancer may just be the one to teach you a new level of understanding. Though not a perfect match, you can learn much from each other.
Cancerians born between 22 June and 3 July are linked to you financially, but will not offer you the emotional fulfilment you yearn for. A business arrangement with them may be the start of bigger and better things if you are patient enough to give this relationship a chance of maturing.
Cancerians born between 4 July and 13 July may be too intense for you — squabbles will erupt just when you think things are going well. There’s a very volatile element to these individuals. There may be no rhythm to their moods, no reason why they change so dramatically from one moment to the next. This will be a major challenge for you.
Those Cancers born between 14 July and 22 July are a little less difficult to handle and you could develop a high-quality friendship in this partnership.
Generally, you’ll be able to quietly help develop the mental skills of Cancer. They, in turn, will teach you how to get in touch with your inner, emotional self.
2007-03-16 15:49:51
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answered by sweet_leaf 7
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Cancer & Gemini
When Gemini and Cancer come together in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship. Sensitive, emotional Cancer has trouble communicating clearly, but clear communication is what defines Gemini. Gemini's chivalrous nature and silver tongue may encourage the Crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual; Cancer, in turn, can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate the world, which the frenetic Twins hardly ever take time to do. If Gemini seems to ignore Cancer or doesn't provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as Cancer needs, trouble may ensue. These two Signs approach the world in such different manners that they must be able to understand and accept one another's differences.
Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth, while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into the role of Cancer's knight in shining armor; Cancer returns that favor with their characteristic urge to protect the ones they love. Quality of home life is important to Cancer, and Gemini will be spoiled by their Cancer lover's hearty home cooking, soft bed and other creature comforts. Cancer is strongly intuitive and maintains an almost psychic connection with their loved ones, but can tend toward possessiveness and idealization of their Gemini partner. If Gemini just reassures Cancer that they're loved and cherished, all will go smoothly.
Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Cancer tends to keep their emotions bottled up inside as they have trouble expressing themselves. They envy Geminis their gift of open, clear communication afforded by the influence of Mercury. Gemini, in turn, can benefit from Cancer's intuitive approach, so different from Gemini's bubbly, surface nature; Cancer can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate life instead of passing by the good things in their rush to get to the next new thing.
Gemini is an Air Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. If these two Signs can work together they can be a great team; after all, the best decisions are made by incorporating the emotions and the intellect. The trouble for these two lies in learning to cooperate. They come from such opposite points of view that at times it can seem as if they simply have nothing in common. Deep, emotional Cancer can also sometimes dampen Gemini's airy enthusiasm, and light, fast-paced Gemini can leave Cancer feeling ruffled, even tattered. Balance can be achieved if they learn to talk openly with one another.
Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Signs. Gemini is flexible, willing to go with the flow and follow another's lead; Cancer is an initiator and likes to provide that lead. Gemini may try to lead by being brave, even confrontational; for it to run smoothly between these two, they both need to learn when to back down and let the other lead the way.
What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're allies, they can soar to great heights together. Gemini is always thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas behind the scenes. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs a fulfilling relationship
2007-03-16 04:06:15
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answered by foxygirl29303 2
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CANCER is usually the one who takes care of family affairs -writing letters to family members, visiting family members, providing the emotional support and care needed by children (and adults!), and, in general, is more attentive to people's feelings and emotional needs. CANCER is also more attached to the past, fond memories, places, and friends than GEMINI. Sometimes GEMINI is indifferent to the concerns of CANCER, and often simply cannot become as emotionally involved about an issue or situation as CANCER. Even if GEMINI is a caring, sensitive person, you still find concerns are expressed differently and are directed less personally than those of CANCER. GEMINI often wants to approach problems intellectually by discussing them whereas CANCER seeks a change in attitude and feels that talking often evades the underlying problems.
Many of the misunderstandings between you arise because GEMINI is more emotionally detached and rational, while CANCER is more subjective, emotionally involved, and unable to be as articulate and "reasonable" as GEMINI is. Paradoxically, you are attracted to one another for the same reason! GEMINI's mental agility and wit appeals to CANCER, CANCER's sensitivity and depth of feeling is attractive to GEMINI, and you both have much to learn from one another.
2007-03-16 05:25:03
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answered by AnswerME 2
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no one belongs with a gemini they have split personalities.
2007-03-16 16:33:57
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answered by jasany316 2
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if he calls thats not rejection
Cancer is better with Pisces and youre better with Aquarius
2007-03-16 03:26:53
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answered by Anonymous
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No.
2007-03-17 17:21:53
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answered by R S 4
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