how to become a more confident?

Question

i am young boy of 22 . Very soon i am going to join a job as health worker in my own homeland . My problem is ,I became more nervous when i work around the people who knows me . To avoid this problem what should i do?

Answer 1

Quit trying to live up to others' expectations and live your own life lol. :P

It's your life and your decision, so don't let them force their opinons unto you. ;) What better are they to do so?

Accept your own mistakes, don't be afraid to try new things and stop being paranoid about what others may or may not think about you. ;)

You know yourself, and if they don't want to accept you - why bother trying to get accepted? ;)

Don't worry, be happy. Enjoy life. :D

Answer 2

the questions you ask yourself are 1) Can i do this job 2) Am i doing the best i can 3) If I am doing all of the above then why should i worry
I also found it helps if i think to myself that i do not know them when i start to get nervous, or that i am really comfortable with them and nothing could go wrong and i just need to continue my job as if no one was there or my best friend was there

Answer 3

I think you need to get out of your comfort zone and truly learn how to interact with adults. Seek social and professional interaction. It might take a while but you will loosen up and find yourself enjoying the interaction.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

well 1st to think less about this issue.concentrate on ur work.they are human like u,why are u getting nervouse with people like u.if thy are comfortable then why not u???..juss follow them.
Best of Luck:)