okay one of my guy friends asked me out last week, and i said yes. but i really wish i hadn't! i get the feeling he likes me more than i like him and there is no kinda spark. i really like him as a friend and i wish i had said that in the first place as i dont think i am ready to have a relationship with him, should i tell him or see how things go? i'm 15 so this is all new to me!
2007-03-16 03:00:43 · 17 answers · asked by kelly w 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hi, i dont no wether im any help to you because im 13 but if I was you i'd leave it for a few days and see if you are just scared because it's new to you or are you in love with him. If the relationship doesn't improve then come clean to him and say please could me just be friends as it doesn't feel right this way. Ask him if he minds and if he does it's just a consequence he'll have to put up with.
Yours Faithfully
Stacey Pearson
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2007-03-16 12:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by miissyy moo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now..before he gets to far into the relationship. Let him know that you like him and all, but fear that this could hurt your friendship and would rather have that than nothing at all. Tell him that maybe further down the road things could work out, but right now you are not ready to have that kind of relationship. Good luck.
2007-03-16 03:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it might be better to tell him the truth but you have got his hopes up so it would probably kill him if you said that you liked him as a friend. i personally think that you should give it a week or two just to make sure that is truly how you feel about him and if you still don't like him as your boyfriend then tell him a little lie just so you don't hurt his feelings and still be friends. you could always say something like your friend really likes him (don't mention any names) and that your relationship with your friend is being destroyed as your going out with him. he should hopefully understand. hope everything goes ok for you!!
2007-03-16 06:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know that you are not ready to date him at this current time, but would like to remain friends. Tell him that you are only 15 and that dating is not at the top of your priority list. Let him that you want to remain friends and invite him over to your home when your parents are home to study or have a snack together.
2007-03-16 05:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him in a tactful way. It's not fair to him if you don't feel the same. You could say something like, "I'm afraid this might change our relationship and I really value you as a true friend."
2007-03-16 03:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight with the guy. i am sure that he will appreciate it much more than being mislead. it can also be quite awkward having a close friend as a boyfriend if things dont work out. if you explain to him how you feel at least the two of you can remain friends
2007-03-16 03:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by mum of 2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him as a friend tell him A.S.A.P if you dont hes jut going to keep thinking you like him and hes going to fall in deeper for you...I went through it but different I was REALLY good friends with a guy and then we started dating and it wasnt the same we wouldnt tal or nything we decided to be friends and even after that it wasnt the same...just tell him as soon as you can before it gets around and then ppl start asking "OMG wat happen" you know just be honest trust me its better...good luck
2007-03-16 03:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by *Tiny Mommy* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be cool to go out and hang just as you feel....Don't read into anything....You think he likes you more than just a friend but your not completely sure....So if anything, just go and enjoy yourself and if he directs the date in a different way then take the opprtunity to tell him that you rather just be friends..........Take things slow...your just 15, so have fun and always be careful...........
2007-03-16 03:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your young you don't have to settle for nothing. if you don't see him like that then let him know after the date or during the date if you two have good conversation together. but just enjoy your time you DON"T have to just be in a relationship.
2007-03-16 03:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie 15 is young, and maybe you should just tell him that you want to go out as friends only if thats the way you feel, good luck
2007-03-16 03:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋