There's this boy he really liked me ,but when i started haging with him and his family he started acting wierd.He wanted to have sex with me and i told him no ,because of things that have happened in the past.I seen him the next day and he told me to leave him alone to quit talking to him,not to wave the whole thing,well then i told him why i wouldnt do anything with him and he started talking to me again.i got into a fight with my step mom and he likes her so now he wont talk to me i have wrote him a note and told him i would leave him alone . but now i really miss him.what should i do ,leave him alone or what?plz help !! Thanks
2007-03-16 03:00:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should move on. The guy sounds like a jerk & it seems as though he was just trying to get in your pants.
There are better guys out there who will respect your boundaries & be your friend even if they know they have to earn your trust before anything else. If he is willing to cut you out of his life just because you denied him sex... he's not worth your time anyway!
2007-03-16 03:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should definitiely leave this boy alone. He is only interested in one thing, and it's obviously not your heart. If you continue to see him, you are missing out on the chance of meeting the kind of guy you DESERVE to have in your life. The kind of guy you deserve will have the following qualities:
1) He is kind, honest, and respects you
2) He wants to be seen with you in public
3) He offers to pay when he takes you out on a date, but lets you pay if you want to.
4) Remembers your birthday
5) Doesn't try to coerce you into having sex when you are not ready.
I hope this helps, just remember that you are always worth 100 times as much as the last guy treated you.
2007-03-16 03:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl, he's a weirdo. just leave him. ask yourself whether he's someone whom u r going to marry. if not, dont ever give him sex. it's not worth it. esp since it's so obvious he just wants to screw u n is now prolly hitting on ur stepmum.
it hurts initially.. n it'll b so hard to not think abt him.
just imagine, if u give urself away to him like tt, will he continue demanding for more?
will he start using this "not talking to u" tactic again just to get what he wants?
by the time u meet someone new, what have u got left to give to ur new guy? ur heart will be nearly ripped empty by then.
trust me, some better guy will come along ur way. n u'll b so happy tt u didnt give urself away to the weirdo.
take care darling.
2007-03-16 03:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by cloudymoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big decision which should be taken by you. Well, I would suggest that love is something which brings care for each other. If I say, you should have follow his desire, it shows that he doesnt care for you and if I say, he should follow you, it shows somehow you do not care him. So think wisely and take a good decision.
After all, if you do not want to be physically intimate, you should make him understand about it with love and care. He should also understand these things that it is still not acceptable by the society.
Love is something which have very high value from these things.
2007-03-16 03:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Pawan one 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i might say the comparable ingredient the lady above mentioned, he's pounding her, in such countless words LOL. If he's appearing humorous, it is because of the fact he's to blame. it is like that one track from destiny's new child, say my call. hear to it. it ought to no longer be the samething, even in spite of the shown fact that it is the comparable concept. If he's appearing humorous, it is because of the fact there is often a reason. Sorry...
2016-10-02 05:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he sounds like a jerk. You may miss him for a while, but believe me, sooner than you think another guy will come around. If this guy doesn't repect your desision not to have sex at that particular time, or anytime for the matter, then he's not worth your time.
2007-03-16 03:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda_Yodel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This whole story sounds messed up . If all he wants is sex , you need to stay away from him !
2007-03-16 03:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by NotSoPerfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O girl! Don't be dumb.. He sounds like a total bastard! He only wanted to sleep with you.. Don't you see that. You told him no and he stopped talking to you.
You miss the one who would treat you like that.. are you mad? You should try your best to be happy! Meet someone else...
2007-03-16 03:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
see how confused you are you dont want that and if he says leave him alone then do it on you will be heartbroken and unhappy in the end because he is confused also so do yourself a favor and leave well enough alone and spare yourself
2007-03-16 03:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone babe. Your gonna learn the best love you can recieve from a anyone is 'unconditional love.'
There is conditions with his love for you and its not worth the heart ache.
2007-03-16 03:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by stayc 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋