my husband has a co worker that texts him stupid message when she's drunk like, "is it bad that i'm drunk at 6pm", and "hey" what is that crap about?
2007-03-16 02:52:17 · 15 answers · asked by MamaLady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the better question is why is she calling your husband? A lot of people drunk dial but she should find someone that isn't married to contact when she's wasted.
2007-03-16 03:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, when I drunk text of dial, I usually contact someone I like because it gives you a good reason to talk to them when you normally wouldn't because of nerves. I'm not saying that she for sure has feelings for your husband, but I wouldn't be surprised. But then again I text and dial people I either haven't seen or talked to in a long time or a random friend. It all depends on the person.
2007-03-16 03:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you husband's drunk co-worker wants him to be thinking about her. It is the same as a child doing things wrong to get their parent's attention. You need to be careful of this one. She gets courage with alcohol. Your husband could be completely innocent in this matter, but don't let him play rescuer because this is her plan.
2007-03-16 03:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This whole text messaging thing has ruined normal discourse. It enables ment ot wimp out of true communication we were never great at to begin with. But I digress. The drunk female texting has to be suspended fast. Tell him it doesnt look good and have him address it. If he gives you crap about it tell him youll never have sex of any kind with him again! It will stop yesterday.
2007-03-16 02:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters your husband should get together with this woman and inform her in no uncertain terms that she's to stop bothering him with this drivel. Furthermore he should explain that although she may find it cutsie and amusing, his wife finds it less that appropriate and unless she (the rum-dummy) wishes to be the catalyst for a divorce or at least marital strife in his relationship she should knock it off.
Now...on the other hand of your husband blows this off and says not to concern yourself with it I believe that you have every tight to make your displeasure known to him in no uncertain terms.
Do not contact the drunken broad. That is an issue only your husband can address because obviously he must condone it or why else would she be doing that. Plus...how did she get his phone number to begin with huh?
2007-03-16 03:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to go out, spend a bunch of money on booze, and take the time to drink it, why not show off your newly acquired idiotic status to your friends? And what better way to do that than to interrupt their lives with an unwanted call or text message?
2007-03-16 02:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all know people do stupid things when they are drunk. Just be careful because most of the time there might be something else going on behind closed doors.
2007-03-16 02:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alchohol removes inhibitions. This person has feelings for your husband and needs to be drunk to act on them . This will only get worse over time. I suggest having your husband nip it in the bud.
2007-03-16 02:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by a_talis_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell her to stop texting him like that and only use it for work related issues.
2007-03-16 02:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's flirting. Put a stop to that quick.
2007-03-16 02:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋