son has gotten dischrged is he lying that he had an option up to 6 months to change his mind he said he was depressed or somthing but he didnt want to go to japan i think because of his gf and now hes home and i think he is a coward and what do you think the discharge was he said it wasnt dishomorable? he had joined the navy
2007-03-16 02:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your son MOST LIKEWLY recieved an honorable medical discharge. When an enlistee becomes a liability to the service due to mental illness, or chronic depression, the military will often times give them the oportunity to opt out, rather than to have that person become an even bigger liability down the road when they are able to claim disabled vet status. I wouldn't call your son a coward however, depression is a very real illness that should be taken seriously. Try to support his decision, and be glad he won't be getting his butt blown off anytime soon.
2007-03-16 03:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but with a father like you, (I've read your line of questions), I am surprised your son isn't dead or wearing a straight jacket, enduring electric shock therapy.
You appear to be a really lousy parent. Why don't you leave your son alone for a while and let him figure out who he is without your hateful and repulsive influence in his life?
Odds are that your son is just fine. You are most likely the catalyst to any problems he might be having.
Bottom line: You are MEAN!
And your message to me speaks well to my assumptions of you as a lousy human being and parent. You have more than proven my point.
With your example as a so-called father, it is really a wonder that your son isn't doing time in the state pen. You are just the sort of parent that can really screw a kid up for life!
Good day to you, just the same.
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In case you have forgotten already what it is you wrote to me, here it is again for your review:
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From: tom c
Subject: hey *****!
Message: most of those questions were made as a group of us for a laugh so go play clittlywinks are jump in front of a bus with kids so thety have suttin to dream about you swallowing sperm seekin ho!
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Really now! And who exactly is the "coward" here? I would suggest that person to be you since you did not have the COURAGE to post your filth here in your forum, but rather snake it into my email and then cowardly close your email for a response. ---At least I was woman enough to speak to you openly about what I thought of your comments / question about your son.
2007-03-16 10:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want yo son to be a part of somthing that scary. Military life is scary and its VERY possible your son cold have been depressed. Also something he thought he wanted but changed his mind.
2007-03-16 10:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by amandarae_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that you have to look at your son ,realize that he is a human being who will make mistakes. You should never look at him like a coward. Irresponsible maybe,immature maybe,indecisive, but not a coward. it is so important for parents to realize if we don't raise our kids w/ disapline they won't know what it is untill they loose something thats meaningfull to them. What did you do, as a parent, to help them feel confident?
2007-03-16 10:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have NO right to be mad at him this was a choice he made you can respect it or not but you have NO right to be pissed...he is your son and obviously you have no idea what it is like over there my brother is there now and i wish he would come home...because i ahve to hear him crying when he calls about what happens over there...everyone in Japan HATES us
2007-03-16 10:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Cutiepieblueeyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coward...definitely...just like his father.
2007-03-16 11:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋