I am really starting to notice sexy black women and they seem to come on to me. How should I handle?

Question

since I am unhappily married? The opportunities to date sexy black women for me have been increasing. I think some of these black beauties are starting to go for white men. I personally love their full lips, nice butts, and most of all they seem to make me feel good when I am around them.

How should I handle this being married and all?

Answer 1

Alright, I hope your wife is like mine, or this would only make you sick.
Get your wife into girls (mine is bi without my doing, I'm lucky) Take her to some gentleman's clubs, ask her about fantasies she might have with females. Then also start to hint towards experimenting with other people. -if you can be with black girls, she can be with black guys- this is not a one way street buddy. But hopefully she will be like my wife, and be happy with your manhood only, and want to try the girl thing.
1st; let her experiment without you. I know you want in on it to, but the more gentleman like you are, the more safe and comfortable she will feel.
2nd; when it is your time, don't jump in there like a rabbit in puberty! Let your wife and the girl welcome you in, they should be very welcoming to the new blood.
3rd; NEVER, EVER give the other girl more attention than your wife, unless instructed by your wife.

if this is not for the two of you, or she doesn't want to hear the idea... well, you said that you were un-happily married. End it with her, and after that, find your black beauty

Answer 2

Well Its cool that you feel this way about women of color but YOU need to exit out of that relationship before you get tied into something you may regret You are unhappily married? Then try to get somekinda grove back if u are finished with the marriage than go through a divorce! But marriage is for good or bad you made that dedication! if you feel like it will lead to a adultry than break it off Im sure she can handle that than finding out that you are cheating. So for the whole black beauty thing........... Go out side of lines drawn it is a new age where people are trying new things........

Answer 3

Well, I would say that first and foremost- if your unhappily married and have exhausted all efforts to make your marriage work its time to think about a separation or worse case a divorce. Its wonderful to have people of any race hit on you but do you want to be a cheater? Are the potential risks worth it?
If you want to stay in your marriage take the come on's with a grain of salt. Let them boost your self esteem and continue with your life as is. But dont cheat. That's the worse thing you can do. If you found out that your wife was banging another man, lets say black only cuz that's your scenario- how would it make you feel?
Just remember, marriages are never easy. You work through things and will always fall in and out of love with your partner.
I wish you the best of luck- and congrats... Its a great feeling to be hit on!

Answer 4

Since you are married I can't advise you to do anything that will harm your relationship. You should try to either work things out at home or end it. But if you are only after black women b/c of their looks then you should do us a favor and stop b/c we really need men to respect us for who we are and not just are looks. It really sounds like you are lusting and not serious about a relationship. Just do some soul searching.

Answer 5

OMG ...Some one has a big EGO ... first off your probably extra flirty because your unhappy with your marriage so you seem to notice black women around you! With that you should work on your marriage before you decide to pursue women. Maybe your just looking for a way out and you think its going to be easier to blame a black women for the destruction of you marriage then your attempts to work it out!!

Answer 6

ok. it extremely is coming from a white woman. White women are ritch and frequently going on for complaining continuously. Black women are loud and characteristic way too plenty concepts-set. Asain women have not have been given any social existence and in basic terms concentration on grades. Hispanic women are grimy and permiscuis. Theres a steryotype for each race, backround, sort of individual. i comprehend white women who have not have been given something, and in no way whinge. i comprehend black women who're quiet and dont mess with people. i comprehend asain women who party alot, and characteristic as we communicate C's i comprehend hispanic women who've one million extreme relationship and look after themselves. I quite have seen each and every thing imbetween besides. some people prefer to show out the undesirable in others, and others locate this entirtaining,because of the fact it makes them sense extra effectual approximately themselves even in spite of the shown fact that they are brining others down. shop your head intense. there'll consistently be haters, yet keep in mind for each hater, theres yet another guy or woman on your area, who thinks that individual is loopy. Its all a circle that cant extremely be stopped, because of the fact alot of persons are discriminant to others. Its a shame, yet its existence. Im chuffed you sound such as you're above that, you have been raised precise.

Answer 7

What a strange question, if you had said women I would say tell them your married and want a mistress. You said black women which brings up race, why would race be in this question unless of course race is uppermost in your mind, which begs a question.

Answer 8

Interesting.

Answer 9

Stay away from women, period. You are married. If you don't want a divorce, and don't want to hurt the very person you promised yourself to, either work it out, or get divorced.

Answer 10

You nothing to gain except a boost to your ego, and everthing to lose. If you have kids, say goddbye to them as well. Listen, as a guy, we like to look at pretty women, Hell, even flirting is fun and it makes us feel like, well you know, guys. But it's not worth it.