Due to the overwhelming response to my "Stay or Go" question, I need you to know more and then tell me what you think. We are a military family, married for 9 years, 2 kids (one on the way), and I've said tried toexpress how I felt many times before but it only brings a short change. I believe in marriage but how am I gonna hold on when every bit of me wants to run?
2007-03-16 02:47:06 · 3 answers · asked by smith_dynasty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you just have to make up your mind that this is what you want to do and then do it. possibly seek counseling for yourself. Or do something that i read in a book, put your pink lipstick on and fake it til you make it. all marriages go through bad times, stick with it and it will be worth it in the end for you and your kids.
2007-03-16 02:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, this is what you signed up for when you got married. It's never going to be a smooth ride always. You have to make it work. Running dosen't always help, it sometimes makes things worse. Try talking, that's always better.
2007-03-16 09:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide now, if you stay will it make you happy ?
if you go what are your options ? what are the
childrens his...............................................................
If you feel like running tell him, make some space
for yourself within the relationship, discuss it thoroughly before you make a final decision, and finally if there is nothing there for you then leave...
Split up amicably as joint custody is an option now
rather then cutting anyone out, if you need to go
away on your own, do it so that you do not feel
hemmed in, if you want to have other relationships
you need to tell him, so he knows which page you
are on..........................................................................
2007-03-16 09:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋