What would you do if your husband sneeks out of the house, and dissapears till 5am. She has 2 small children, and she feels like she is his mother.
2007-03-16 02:43:11 · 20 answers · asked by chez006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find out what club he is going to and then show up with the children at the club. Have the d.j. page him.
He'll stop all that.
2007-03-16 02:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would change the locks and let him stay at the club. You can not make this guy into a father or husband. I am sorry. He has to want it. I don't think your friend needs to be his mother but, I don't think this started now. I am sure he was like this when they dated maybe not the clubs but being immature. It gave her control and she liked it but now it's overwhelming for her. I would give him a taste throw him out. What dose she have to loose? Either he will wake up from it or move on either way it's better then the situation she is in now.
2007-03-16 02:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, buy new locks. Or even better, if you can afford it, have a 24hr. locksmith's number on hand. Then, once he leaves for the night, throw everything he owns that you do not have a use for out on the curb. Have the locks changed, his crap in the yard, & he might get a clue. If not, end it. The 2 kids are not being done any favors by staying in a marriage like this.
2007-03-16 02:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by T S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something is up - why does he feel the need to sneak out? Why can't he just say he's going out?
I'd have a problem if this was happening several times a week and I was never invited. Either catch him sneaking and go with him (obviously you'll need a babysitter to watch kids!) or be up front with him, tell him it bothers you and ask him to bring you (don't expect every time but you should be included sometimes) or stop. If he refuses, then start questioning the relationship.
2007-03-16 02:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by chicchick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What an @$$.
I say you babysit, and she goes with him. Otherwise she should change the locks and then the sneaking part is exposed.
She needs to confront him and tell him that this has to stop. He's an adult and it's time to begin acting like one. In any case, they should be going together. What's he hiding?!
2007-03-16 02:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dino 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks and leave his clothes on the front yard. Get a lawyer, file for divorce and let him goo back to his real mother.
2007-03-16 02:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have his bags packed, sitting outside, with all the doors locked. Eventually, I would probably let him come home, but only after he promised to act like he was MARRIED not SINGLE! If he continued, it would be time for a separation, and maybe divorce.
2007-03-16 02:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's just the night club he's sneaking out for??? I would lock the door and not let him back in. Tell him he needs to grow up and realize there are more important things than himself!!!
2007-03-16 02:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by DaughteroftheKingofKings 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably sneak out right behind him just to see if that is where he is going. I mean unless the wife is an angry B----, then there should be no reason for him to sneak out unless he is cheating. He should just be able to let her know where he is going and that should be fine. But if he has to sneak, that doesn't sound too right.
2007-03-16 02:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by babe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would pack his stuff and change the locks. If he doesn't want a life with me and the kids, he doesn't get the benefits either. He can have the single life if he wants to live it.
That's harsh, but he'll just walk all over you if you let him.
2007-03-16 02:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by JLB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋