2007-03-16 02:41:05 · 19 answers · asked by Angel Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you may want to dig a little deeper on that one with him. Men don't live with women and have no sexual chemistry unless he/she is gay. Plus, if things were fine before and now he's telling you this, something's up. He may have met someone else possibly but wanting to keep you around as a "meal ticket"...My guess is it won't get any better, you may need to step up to the plate and make the decison to stay there or finally move on =) Best wishes!
2007-03-16 02:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been intimate with you up until recently, then there is a medical problem (depression, erectile dysfunction, or something in his head) or he is cheating on you. Ask him why you two aren't as close as you were, if he doesn't give you a reason, then he is probably cheating on you.
If he is, and still says he cares about you, then either he does, or you are helping to support him and he knows life would be tougher without you.
Another reason could be a change in your physical characteristics from when you were intimate till now. He could still care and just not be turned on by you anymore. Its worth talking to him about. Intimacy is a big part of most relationships.
2007-03-16 09:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend might be tired of the same thing each time the 2 of you should try something new and you guys should go to a sex shop and you should try to find things that he's into that might put him in the mood and help him be more intimate with you.
2007-03-16 09:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by RDW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either: A. He has impotency problems B. You have bad breath or C. There is someone else.
Ok, ok....so maybe it isn't that cut and dry and boiled down to just one of the 3. There could be a million other reasons. Bottom line... ASK HIM! Nobody can help you if you can't communicate with him. good luck.
2007-03-16 09:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by lordydordy42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can someone help when you give so little information. Why does he not want to be intimate, ask him.
2007-03-16 09:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's conflicted. He may love you so much he has a hard time getting excited because he knows it will mean pushing your relationship to a more serious level. Or, he's having an affair that he's very guilty about.
2007-03-16 09:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage your bf to get a complete medical check up to rule out any healthy issues. If he is healthy, then the reasons are psychological. I would suggest counseling for you both if you truly want to save the relationship.
2007-03-16 09:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not pregnant....he probably just wants to protect you and make sure that you dont....and just becuase he doesnt want to intimate any more doesnt mean he doesnt like you or anything like dat.....its just dat sometimes when you care about someone so much you dont want to ruin what you have, and could just be afraid
2007-03-16 09:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by lilnaychulita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try changing things up maybe he feels the novelty has worn off. Do something romantic for him. Dress sexy, make him his favorite meal. Do things that will make him feel as special as you say he is. Change and surprises are two good things.
2007-03-16 09:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When were you intimate last? Give him time, all relationships go thru slumps.
2007-03-16 09:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by hoboken134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋