me n my best friend use to be real cool. until everybody started to come between our friendship its like nobody wanted to see us together or what not. yesterday we got into another big argument over some he say she say stuff. he believed what the gurl that i dont like now said cuz me and that gurl use to be cool until now.he told me yesterday that he was leaving in 2 weeks and he his glad. he said he gettin his number changed so i cant call him and he doesnt never wanna talk to me again. so for the rest of the day i was mad at everyone and didnt talk to anyone until today. i cryed all yesterday. before all this happen he was already not talking to me so it has already been two weeks. this situation made it worsier. the last time he was mad at me because of this same girl that was suppose to be my friend. all cuz she liked him.what do i do? why cant i get him out my system? why does everything i do i think of him and memorys come and i call every dude his name?
2007-03-16 02:38:24 · 12 answers · asked by SexyKay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well your post doesn't really make too much sense really but what I can make of it you've not only lost a boyfriend but a best friend too ,,,,,
the definition of a friend is where some one knows all of your faults and short comings but still wants to be your friend anyway ,,,,
Were I in your place I would re-examine the friendship that you thought you had between her and you ,,,, Usually friendships always out last relationships with a guy ,,,,
As for the guy ,,,, I wouldn't give it much thought ,,,, Guys like him come a dime a dozen ,,,, At best he's a jerk and you'd be better off with terminal cancer than you would be with him ,,,, You might consider finding a new circle of friends but just be more cautious as to who you let yourself get close to from now on ,,,, You didn't mention your age but it sounds like you are young so this situation isn't the end of the world ,,,, With friends like this you certainly don't need any enemies ,,,, You don't need this crap and you don't need either of them ,,,,, Strike out in a new direction and don't let them follow ,,,, You won't be sorry ,,,,
2007-03-16 03:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly i would say that if ur friendship had been based on truth and trust, it would not have been broken. and who's that guy to come in between u two? u 2 would be called best friends only if u keep faith in each other and trust each other and not if u belive in someone else. so this was the main cause for this whole problem. now he as he is going, u should first get ur friendship back. just forget abt him. u know guys are really stupid, they never ever can stay wid a girl for always. so calm ur friend and tell her abt the wrong side of that boy. eg- his rudeness, his stupidity etc. slowly she will understand that she was wrong. it might take some days. tell the other friends to help u for this. and they will if they dont want to come in between u 2 best frnds. and just take him off ur memory. whenever u think abt him, just say 'what a stupid i am to think of that idiot again' and i am sure that u will hate him. u must let that guy go but do not let ur friend go, cuz A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED. she might help u in future. so just chill gal, and listen to my advice that is 'love ur friend, and dont let anyone come in between ur friendship' okay? so did u understand that what i want to convey to u through this.
always to help u,
sumi
2007-03-16 10:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by sumi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, men will come and go in and out of your life but if you have a true friend they will never leave you. Jealousy over having to share her friend is a bad thing because if the situation was reversed and she were the one with the boyfriend would she like it if you tore them apart? NO, because REAL friends would be happy for the other one. I am speaking from experience because my best friend is still a huge part of my life after 40 years. I have seen her through divorces and raising her kids alone and she has cried with me and listened to me complain about my husband through out my 24 years of marriage. We have seen eachother at our worst, she showed me how to shave my legs for the first time, and plucked my bushy eyebrows when we were kids and I listened to her as she wrote down every detail of the wedding she was going to have when she found her Mr. Right someday. We rubbed Cold Noxema on eachothers blistered backs after cooking in baby oil at the beach all day, we didn't even have sunscreen in those days. And you know all of those boys that broke our hearts? Most of them we can't even remember their names! A Best friend is someone who knows everything about you......And Loves you anyway! Cheer up cause you'll find someone better than that guy anyway and when you do your true friends will be happy for you!!
2007-03-16 10:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by lilrunaway45 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let Him or "Your so called Friend" bother you. You need to be in-control of this situation! If he says he's moving and changing his #, you tell him, "That's okay I don't need someone in my life that doesn't trust me" and "By the way I'm changing my # just to make sure your promise is kept!" For your so called girlfriend, don't talk to her again their are so many trustworthy, nice friends out in the world. It's really hard to loose friends over petty stuff but that's just part of growing up. Trust me you will be better off without them.
2007-03-16 09:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okayy, its kinda hard situation. chill & relax. friends come & friends go. if u really want to make the relation bac, try to talk to em, at least, ask y. if he doesnt want to be fren with u anymore, juz go on & leave. its ok sumtimes to let go. u'll b fine. be strong & gud luck.
2007-03-16 09:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Zunnur' Ain 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to put that girl in her place!And you probably still like
the boy.I went through the same thing, you are going through one time.
2007-03-16 09:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Cr@zyC 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do one thig dont talk to him and scare him and made urself upset infront of him and don't talk to everyone an act like a ill.this is my gurantee he will talk to u if not contact me at
cho_cho19922000@yahoo.com
2007-03-16 09:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it blow over then it may or not get better...just dont kiss anyones a$$...it wont make you feel better
2007-03-16 09:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cutiepieblueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good luck with that.
2007-03-16 09:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you shoot him in the chest plate, that did it for me.>:(
2007-03-16 09:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Brownie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋