My friend is being dumb and it feels like our friendship is one big competiotion...what should I do to let her know to just stop?
2007-03-16 02:30:37 · 11 answers · asked by Emily B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just snap her out of it ^.^
2007-03-16 02:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by *Yumi* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what my sister if you believe that your friendship was not a stupid thing to do then you will play a very clever role in your friendship referring to the current matter & let her win in a way that when she wins then she would realise that she is a naive victor though she has won.
Much lav & good luck!!
2007-03-16 02:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mapaputsi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like much of a friendship to me! Her acting stupid and you full of judgments perhaps the kindest thing you can do is just move on.
2007-03-16 02:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Say you want a friendship, not a competition, you want to be able to be comfortable together, not always on guard.
Friendship is something that should make you fell better, about yourself, about the world, about your life. If it's actually causing stress, or even just unpleasantness, it's not worth it.
2007-03-16 02:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel, about the way she acting!!! If she is really ur friend, she will mostly likely change the way she is acting.
2007-03-16 02:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by Cr@zyC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start avoiding herand take a break from each other...if she approaches you and asks what is going on...tell her the truth..
if she doesnt..oh well...find another friend...good luck
2007-03-16 02:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Curiously 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward and tell her to stop that she is acting stupid, and if she still is let her be, and walk away. you tried,
2007-03-16 02:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful. Tell him/her in a serious/ playful way that u just need to chill out.
2007-03-16 02:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a new friend and get rid of this friend that you have now.
2007-03-16 02:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break. Find something else to do.
2007-03-16 02:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just discuss your problems.. tell your friend whats bothering you... n sort out things...
2007-03-16 02:44:13 · answer #11 · answered by Unforgettable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋