At first he said it was because I was really hot and he can't keep in his "lust" for me but it's been two years since I've had an orgasm. I would never cheat on him (even though he has cheated on me) and I don't think sex is everthing but it would be nice to feel satisfied once in a while.
2007-03-16 02:06:42 · 20 answers · asked by Petal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be up front with him and talk to him about how you feel.
2007-03-16 02:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-11 04:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, be selfish - find a position that is good for you, but not good for him and enjoy that, then change position so he gets his 10 seconds of fun
Long term, he can train himself to last longer - pausing just before and then going again etc.. but you can read about that on the internet
2007-03-16 02:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by whycantigetagoodnickname 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he's not for you.Any man who takes two years to care about satisfying his lady isn't worth the mess of sex with.There isn't a thing you can do to make him last longer that's his problem but as long as he's getting his and he is then he doesn't care about you or any other girl getting what you need.So what if he cheats,those girls are getting the minute man treatment to so you aren't losing anything and they aren't gaining any thing.Lose him,find a man who's interested in your body and wants to use it for a playground.Haven't you heard John Mayers song?Your body is a wonderland???
2007-03-16 02:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-29 15:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really much YOU can do about it darlin. This is something he has to want to figure out. Start by telling him about it, be prepared for his reaction, you will be insulting his pride. Suggest he go get checked out, it could be something very simple health wise that could change this. If he is not in aggreement (like mine wasn't) figure out things he can do for you to give you pleasure BEFORE he takes his. Get him a C*** Ring, see if that helps, try using two,lol. Trust me honey, I've been thru all of this, he has to be willing, if he is not, then eventually you will either have to start pleasing yourself without him, or you will get tired of him and leave. Hopefully he is not selfish, Good Luck, I feel for you.
2007-03-16 02:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him use a vibrator on you before you tend to him.....maybe that will be good foreplay for him and it will enable him to learn what you like and YOU will get pleasure as well. That may open up the communications between you two sexually so that he can learn to please you. Assuming that he wants to and isn't selfish. If he is selfish, then.....why would you want to continue that relationship? Right? Consider this attempt a learning experience....hopefully it will work out in your favor. If not, as I said, you learned from it. Good luck!
2007-03-16 02:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by lordydordy42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can he cheat on you if he only lasts 10 seconds?
well may be you are so good looking that he cant take it
2007-03-16 09:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kevo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is primarly required is his concern / desire to satisfy you and not to be selfish. If that is there then everything is ok. Just warm him once again and this time he would last longer.
2007-03-16 02:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy-friend is right. Find a mature man.
2007-03-16 02:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by poppy vox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has not learned the art of sex at all.
If he wants to please you and cares about you then he will try and learn. I have a big hunch he really only cares about himself. Pin rabbit ears on him.
2007-03-16 03:17:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋