hiya, im a cancer too
Cancer THE CRAB - the sign of the Protector
Like a crab, Cancerians have a hard exterior and a sensitive and soft inner core. Their view of life is coloured by their feelings and emotions and their relationship with loved ones and family. Cancerians have a strong sense of history and ancestry and have powerful connections to the past and their memories.
Get More from Life
Honour your ability to know where you came from as well as where you are going to, and be the keeper of those important snippets from years ago to create a family scrapbook heirloom.
Ideal Careers
Architect, nurse, care worker, caterer, historian, nursery teacher, homeworker, hotelier, publican.
Advice for Partners & Friends
A good idea - to honour a Cancerian's family traditions and know they they are not always going to show their feelings when hurt.
Not so useful - to be insulting and insensitive about their mothers, as a Cancerian will hang on and bear a grudge for ages.
We love you at your Best ...
Cancerians are wonderful to be around and can be great company, amusing and able to tell stories and jokes. They have an instinctive understanding of human relationships and are great to help sort out problems and be a shoulder to cry on. Sensitive, kind and sympathetic, with an absolute urge to nurture and protect people around them, particularly the family.
Kind, sensitive, sympathetic, imaginative, maternal/paternal, solicitous, protective, cautious, patriotic, tenacious, shrewd, thrifty, resourceful, a good homemaker.
.... Difficult to Live With!
Cancer has the ability to take an emotional wound and allow it to fester, without the desire to necessarily talk through and be open. Sometimes, Cancerians will expect the the person who inflicts emotional wounds to know exactly what ails them and a relationship can turn into a guessing game punctuated by long periods of silence and sulking, or a retreat into their shell. Watch out for the mood changes.
You are most compatible with
Cancer - oh such a dreamy affair.
Taurus - cosy atmosphere.
Virgo - stimulating company.
Scorpio - paradise with sparks!
Sun Signs You are not so Compatible with
Pisces - highly charged.
Sagittarius - trouble & strife.
Scorpio - sparks & mind games!
Libra - heavy going.
Gemini - rather at odds.
Aries - a poor match.
Your Opposite Sun Sign
is Capricorn
Symbol: The Crab
Ruling Planet: Moon
Water - Cardinal - Negative
Night Forces - Feminine
Growth Phase: The Adolescent
Secret Motivation: "I Feel"
CANCER
The sign of the Teacher, the Prophet
Personality: Sensitive and sympathetic, moody, tenacious, ambitious, caring, mediumistic.
Positive Qualities: Tenacious, sensitive, sympathetic and psychic, persuasive, loyal and idealistic, imaginative.
Negative Qualities: Moody, marked inferiority complex, vacillating, unforgiving, pessimistic, easily hurt.
PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER
Sensitive or psychic. His will is often centred on pocket-book security. Moody, chameleon-like. Nurses grudges, collects hurts. Loves to eat and feed others. Sympathetic. Pride in home and property. Fixed affection or dislikes! Confidence has to be won. Reserved, retiring - or the opposite, as he is very changeable. Usually low vitality. Deals in or works with hospitals, restaurants, dairies, real estate, liquids!
KARMIC MISSION
To lead - in a sensitive, secretive, reflective and strategic manner.
ENERGY PATTERN
Each of the 12 Signs of the Zodiac represents specific energy patterns, or modes of expression. They act as modifiers of the elements with which they are associated, be it a Planet or a House. Cancer is healing, nurturing, sensitivity seeking psychological understanding, emotional self-expression, and the capacity to heal others.
INFLUENCE OF THE PLANET
Those who are born under Cancer are the Moon type. You have a round face, pale skin, light coloured eyes, generally drooping on the outer edge. You are sensuous, imaginative, emotional, kind, impressible, very moody, quick to take offence and stubborn. You are untidy in your dress - even when you wear freshly stitched clothes, you manage to get them crumpled.
CANCER LOVE MYSTERY
You are not always able to sustain a happy relationship, being a creature of moods with a tendency to indecision. This is particularly noticeable in the Cancer male, as you tend to be erratic in your attitudes, even though you are very protective and also have a strong sentimental streak. You are a good provider, steady and reliable. You also have an instinctive almost psychic understanding of your partner's feelings and moods, but you must definitely learn to be firm and decisive and curb your tendency to nag and be over critical. Don't give too much importance to your parents in your married life, and don't make odious comparisons which can ruin a marriage. However, you can be called a good lover, if not a bold one. Cope with your sudden changes of mood rationally. You basically tend to settle down naturally and quickly after marriage. Home and domesticity mean much to you.
AS A FRIEND
You are worth your weight in gold where loyalty and attachments to people are concerned. You are always ready to give, but you are naturally disappointed when this is not always reciprocated. You will never sever a relationship, but do not expect too much out of friendship.
YOUR LUCKY ELEMENTS
Birth Stone: Carnelian
Lucky Gems: Rubies , Pearls And Moonstone
Lucky colours: Melon-Pink, Pale Green and White (mainly)
Lucky Numbers: 2, 7, 11, 20, 29, 25, 34 (the 2 and 7 series)
Lucky Herbs and Flowers: White Rose, White Lily, Poppy and Honey-suckle
Lucky Day: Monday, also Thursday
Cancer Friendship Profile
The Crab is likely to send you frequent invitations to dinner. Of course, they enjoy your company, but they love it when you come over and complement them on their house, decorations and excellent cooking skills. They make loyal friends, so long as you do nothing to betray their trust. If you can handle a super emotional pal who is likely to call you up and cry into the phone for no reason, you will have a devoted buddy who is just as likely to arm themselves with a box of tissues and come to your aid when you're feeling blue. Though the Crab would usually rather sit around the house tending the garden and organizing their bits of nostalgia, they will still occasionally be in the mood to go out for dinner and a movie. As a friend of a Cancer, you'll never need to worry about recording important events. Your favorite Crab will always be there with a camera. As your friendship grows, your Cancer buddy will likely invite you to family dinners as a matter of course. A Cancer who is hurt hurts deeply and for a long time, though, so take care with the fragile emotions of your friend.
Best Friend Bets: Taurus, Virgo
Cancer
Home is where the heart is for Cancer, a great nurturer and protector of family, home and tradition. This sign is ruled by the Moon, and the Crab's emotions often swing with the cycle of that shimmering orb. Catch that mood on an upswing, and you are likely to encounter a caring and devoted soul who can easily take the lead in romance. The strong-willed, persistent Crab will usually get its way, but that's not a bad thing, since it usually means being drawn into a shell, which is rife with carnal pleasures. As is natural to a Water sign, Cancer's moods can flow like a meandering river or rage like the highest seas. Either way, the Crab rewards brave sailors with a seductive nest in which to test many moods, feelings and emotions.
Cancer
Home is where the heart is for Cancer, a great nurturer and protector of family, home and tradition. This sign is ruled by the Moon, and the Crab's emotions often swing with the cycle of that shimmering orb. Catch that mood on an upswing, and you are likely to encounter a caring and devoted soul who can easily take the lead in romance. The strong-willed, persistent Crab will usually get its way, but that's not a bad thing, since it usually means being drawn into a shell, which is rife with carnal pleasures. As is natural to a Water sign, Cancer's moods can flow like a meandering river or rage like the highest seas. Either way, the Crab rewards brave sailors with a seductive nest in which to test many moods, feelings and emotions.
Cancer in Love
A slow, yet smoldering, courtship is what the Crab loves. What's the rush, anyway? The Crab is determined to win, so the prelims should go on for as long as possible. Once love is in the air, Cancerians prove themselves devoted lovers, protective of the object of their affections, and unusually helpful and sympathetic. The Crab is an emotional bag of tricks and will feel most things very strongly, so don't be the one to cross them. That said, Cancer may be the perfect sign for a lover seeking pampering and seduction, someone who is willing to learn a thing or two in the game of love. An honest love -- and lover -- become Cancer, for it is in this safe environment that they are best able to create a warm home and indulge their nurturing instincts.
What Cancer Needs
What Cancer wants most is a partner who can take things slow and easy, secure in the knowledge that the ultimate victory will be sweet for both. An exchange of emotions is also ideal for the Crab, whether it's through sex, sports or some passionately-penned correspondence. Cancerians are great one-on-one and love that type of interaction, but they are also good at parties and enjoy dazzling a crowd. Consequently, an understanding lover is key. A partner as intuitive as the Crab will also help to draw them out of their shell and keep them out. In the end, a strong partner who can set the table and be there for the Crab is heaven-sent, and if they know how to retreat when necessary, even better.
The nest is the most natural place for the affectionate Crab to be, and if they can share that space with someone special -- well, that's hard to beat. The emotions of this winning sign help to make Cancerians empathetic and caring lovers, the sort of people who glow like the moon and flow like the sea.
Cancer Beauty Profile
As a Cancer, a Cardinal Water Sign, you love to care for the downtrodden and very often your own needs are overlooked. Your beauty routine, then, is likely minimal -- if anything. Lucky for you, Cancers have expressive eyes and cheekbones to die for! While your sparkling, emotive eyes, chiseled bone structure and womanly proportions make you the picture of the feminine urge to nurture, there's more to you than meets the eye!
From the outside, you present yourself as a sensible caregiver -- whether you're a mother or not -- but underneath, you're an emotional and sexual woman. Your beauty is of the librarian-letting-her-hair-down variety. When you do allow yourself a decadent moment, you love to luxuriate in a bubble bath or slather on avocado facemasks and loofah yourself into oblivion. You prefer the classics -- pearls, pastel colors and tried-and-true products such as baby powder and witch hazel.
Your beauty comes from your generosity, your sympathetic nature and your realistic self-image. It's when you open your arms to give the world a warm hug that you become an absolute knockout.
Cancer Career Profile
Don't mistake a Cancer for an underachiever -- they're working it as much and as well as the next person, albeit in a subtle, low-key manner. The Crab's sensitive nature is readily apparent in business dealings, preferring a non-confrontational approach that protects them as well as those around them. Caution is the Cancerian's byword, lest they be forced to retreat into that handy-dandy shell.
The Crab likes to lead, and as long as these folks are comfortable with their proscribed duties and their colleagues in the quest, they will probably succeed. As long as their emotions can be kept in check, Cancerians can create a space of harmony and happiness for all. This empathetic and intuitive quality also makes the Crab a natural nurturer and someone well suited to the caregiver role, whether it's as teacher, healer or protector. There are times, though, when even the Crab won't follow his good "medical" advice and can sorely benefit from creating a harder shell -- one can only take so much abuse!
Those born under this Sign may not look like they're out to conquer the world, but in their own way, they're getting a lot of good done. Cancerians are very creative and love family, qualities that can lead to bliss in the workplace if properly merged. Think of an art therapist or family counselor, and you're talking the Crab's talk. A word of caution to co-workers: Don't cross the diligent Crab. Those pincers have some sharp claws!
The Cancer office feels for all the world like home, with a couch for napping, a teapot for fixing something warm and soothing and favorite mementos all around. Crabs are the only ones who aren't clamoring for a spanking-new company car -- hey, that ten-year-old American sedan just got comfortable! The office is the Crab's favourite place for a business lunch, although a homey neighbourhood spot is a close second.
Cancerians are well suited as doctors, pharmacists, teachers, nutritionists, chefs, -- anywhere they can feel truly useful.
2007-03-16 02:09:25
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answered by ♥gigi♥ 7
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When she is in love, she will act both ways. First, shy, polite and trembling to be near you. Second, she will attach to you like glue and trying to be with you all the time. She will try to go home with you after work, or have every lunch with you. It is O.K. if you like her too, but if is is not the case, you will feel very uncomfortable. She hates to be talked about or gossiped by someone else. If she knows she will be very hurt.
She is not a brave or daring type, so if you like her then you better be the one who start first. She will not accept her true feelings, so if you like here you better tell her first. She is like a musical note always change in tunes, so one minute she can be funny and cheerful, and one minute she can be sad and depressed. Other people may think of her as "Over-acting", or "Over-reacting".When she is depressed, she will go out and look for things to make it up.
She has a constant fear for many things. She fears of not being smart enough, not pretty enough. Even if she is not fat, she will not be satisfied.Assuring her of her looks would help, because she can change her mood 4 times a day. She is not stingy, but you will not surprise if you see she collecting old or broken junks. She feels that everything are useful to her. She will find a way to re-use it again some day.
She is not a jealous type, but possessive. The best part about her is that she will sacrifice everything for her loved one with no limit. Don't leave her in times of troubles for she will never forget it. She is not a weak type, even she looks like one. For example if you argue with her, she might cry her heart out. Once you left, she will wipe her tears and start clean up her apartment normally.
Nevertheless, there are some "don'ts" to remember with her. She hates to be criticized, she is deeply wounded by ridicule, and she just can't stand being rejected. One, two, three. They're basics. Seldom openly aggressive, the typical Cancerian hesitates. You'll have to make the first move. If she moves anywhere at all, it will be backwards or sideways. With her basically shy nature and fear that she won't be accepted, she echoes .the male of the Sun sign. I know of a Cancer woman and a Cancer man who, for seven hours, sat close to each other one night in her apartment, under the pretense of looking at magazines. While their pulses pounded silently, they went through a stack of back issues, the morning and evening papers, and worked a few crossword puzzles. Neither crab, you see, wanted to make the first move.
She's afraid she isn't pretty enough, she isn't smart enough, she isn't young enough or she isn't old enough. It makes no difference if she has a figure like Venus de Milo, a face like Helen of Troy and a mind like Aristotle: she'll still feel inadequate. Assure her that she's young, she's lovely, she's engaged, and she has you. About twenty times a day should begin to make a dent. Her moods will change on the average of four times a month, with each quarter Moon plus minor fluctuations twice a day- reflecting the tides. She's sort of predictable in an unpredictable kind of way. It may make her fascinating and mysterious, but so doggone aggravating youll feel like whacking her. During one of her blue spells, she may even be afraid she's not a good cook, which is utterly ridiculous, because the typical Cancerian woman can make a French chef look like the mess sergeant you had at boot camp. This woman isn't an automatic can opener or a frozen food fan. She would rather shell her own peas and bake her own biscuits. Her casseroles are sensational, her potatoes are fluffy, her vegetables are crisp and crunchy, and she tops it all off with heavenly strawberry jam. Cancer women are very friendly with their ovens. The kitchen will be her favorite room by far (next to the nursery). She'll fuss over you like a mother hen, and you'll probably love it.
Cancerians like to keep secrets. They're not much for true confessions, unless you're the one doing the confessing. Females born under the sign of the crab aren't necessarily stingy, but they have this little habit of saving things.
2007-03-16 05:21:35
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