more period this is the middle of march she has a very offensive like a man who just came off a football field.she likes to stare at women.yes i took her to the doctor regarding something else but not this matter she's get angry because she acts like a lesbian i only tell her to protect her base on her mental condition yes she angry about her disability but as her mother I care because these people wil;l try to take advantage of her it's a thing now they call "gay pride"?she angry because the boy's at school don't look at her being feminine I try so hard to make her look feminine but it's just weird that she wears a man's 14 shoe,she wears a girl's 14 clothing but she's very thin she's 5'10 and weighs a 100 lbs?She got very loud and angry when I told her about mstaring at women and acting gay? I'm not gay" she screams and started crying?
2007-03-16 01:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by 33mom 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
May I suggest you speak to a family doctor?
2007-03-16 01:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something wrong with this picture - 5-10, 100 pounds but then a size 14 shoe??? I also question the size 14 clothing description. Is this for real or is this one of those that you get a headache from trying to rationalize? I think that is she is mentally handicapped, she probably stares at everyone, not just the girls. If this is a true question, I suspect that mother is being a little paranoid as people will rrecognize the girls condition for what it is and ignore her actions with that in mind
2007-03-16 09:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Brent W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should call her gay - if she gets offended its probably because shes not like that and the fact that you think she is gay really upsets her and make think you really dont understand her at all..so thinking you dont understand her, she chose to watch the surroundings and make decisions on herself-like you said shes a thin girl and dont look very feminine so she tries to look more like it and grab some tips of the women she thinks look beautiful, dresses good and are feminine(thats why she stares at women - just trying to get some clue..),as for men - maybe shes just shy and dont think is beautiful enough to talk to some guy - 14 is a very complicated age, shes just trying to discover herself as a person so dont rush her with that guy thing..its a dutch comfort but i think after some years everything should fall into right places, just be patient and caring
2007-03-16 09:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jule. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she might have gay feelings because no boys give her attention but she loves you and feel confident around women.but you know it could be she just wish she was some of the women she stares at,fantasies about being them and not with them.not that there is something wrong with being gay and you should tell her you love her no matter what!wich i think you do but children can never hear it to much.
2007-03-16 10:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she stares at women because she admires how they look and wants to look that way too.
I agree- you should speak to a professional about this. She's at a really sensitive age and it's not very kind of you to insinuate that she's gay because she's tall and has big feet and looks at women.
2007-03-16 09:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by dream_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think some evaluation or talk with a medical professional is in order.She may have more problems than you think she does.I think I'd take her to the family doctor and maybe after that to a Psych clinic.
That's all I have to say about that.
2007-03-16 09:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by blakree 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just who do you think is going to try to take advantage of your daughter. Stop acting so frigging paranoid and BE A MOTHER to your child and stop worrying about her sexuality.
2007-03-16 10:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suggest professional help, both medical and psycological to help you both deal with the changes that puberty will bring.
2007-03-16 10:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best to seek advice from a professional.
2007-03-16 08:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by ShanShui 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-16 10:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by janaki aishwarya 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋