why is there a cospiracy against me personally?

Question

people condesend me. are short and abrupt with me. are smarmy with me. are unctuous to me. dont seem to want to get to no me. and keep me excluded. at arms length. are they treating me like this because of my problems? me personally?
why do i feel ostracised? people patronize me too. im treated like a f**kcing leapor. lets ignore him...knudge knudge. wink.wink. maybe this explains why i get no responses from friendly messages i leave for girls i like on myspace or plentyoffish. there being told to avoid me. stay away from me. not to get involved. im a tormented. isolated 29 year old male. whos missed out on life, big time

Answer 1

You're so good at whingeing all the time that it isn't surprising that everybody ostracises you. If you're like this in writing, God only knows what it must be like to meet you in real life.

Answer 2

I'm not a girl that uses myspace or one of those people that you specifically try to contact, but I do know that I don't ignore you. In fact, I've read your whole message. :P

Don't be so depressed ;) Your thoughts seem to be springing up from confusion and negative thoughts.

People aren't all the same. Perhaps you're trying to get involved or are surrounded with and by the wrong group of people. It's like water to fire - the flame won't dance or glow brighter but instead extinguish and grow cold.

Life is a bumpy ride - there will always be ups and downs. Just be patient and wait for that uplifting moment to come. ;)

You're not isolated, unless you yourself talk or think your way into believing so. :P Believe it or not, it has happened MANY times with me before, although I'm only fourteen.

Get up, hold your head high in dignity and go into that crowd of people. Don't be afraid to try new things - it's the fear that's holding you back. Take a step, take another. :) Patience is key - you're unique and you know you are. It may take time for those that admire you to actually find you.

Life's too short. You only get one as far as humanity knows it, so live your life. ;)

"Don't hurry, don't worry. You're only here for a short visit, so be sure to stop and smell the flowers." - Walter Hagen

With Arms Wide Open
~ Christy

Answer 3

You sound like you have a lot of anger and resentment towards people at this point in your life.
You must know that there is nothing against you personally, maybe it's just the people that you associate with or the situations that you find yourself in?

If you genuinely feel that people are in one some big secret, perhaps you are a little bit paranoid from feeling this way for so long?

It could help to get to know a new group of people, get into some new situations where people don't know about your past so can't prejudge you on things in your past.
Try going into it with a positive attitude though. Starting something feeling negative or resentful towards people will just scare them off straight away. Even if it feels a little bit fake try to be as positive as possible when getting to know new people.

As for the why people don't reply on myspace or plentyoffish that's probably because most people on there are ignorant or conceited and just want attention, not to give attention to people that they don't regard as kool/hot/interesting/emo enough.
They're not the opinions of real people.

If you want to talk, I'd be happy to have a chat with you :).

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear that matey.
I'm 35 and have found over the years that most people seem to want something; usually your attention as it makes them feel needed or important if only for a few minutes.
I play in a pool team and meet lots of different characters in the pub, some hard to get on with and some easy. The hard ones tend to be self conscious for whatever reason and put up a barrier to disguise it. This barrier can be either aggressive or over-friendly, either one is off putting.
The other thing they do is bring their problems and bad moods to you or they criticise everyone display their hatered. We all like a moan but when it's constant, we tend to back off.

The easy people to get on with are the people who are just being themselves, they laugh at themselves, they don't criticise or blame and most of all, they listen; they give everyone else their attention.

If you find your circle of friends are a bit crap, go and get some more! I go to gigs a lot, small local bands, you find easy going people at gigs and you can build up a good relationship with them.

Anyway dude, good luck. e-mail me if you like [e-mail].
(I am a loathsome but friendly dog!)

Answer 5

Careful you don't drown in that big pool of self pity you've got going on there! Maybe it's about time you questioned these people, stood up foryourself and (although wildly guessing) stop smoking dope cuz somethings making you hugely paranoid!

If all else fails, move to New Zealand, I hear they're an extremely friendly bunch!!

(ps, I wasn't told to write this by the way.)

Answer 6

It sounds to me like your paranoid. These people are probably not doing these things to you your mind makes it up. You should try talking to someone (professional) about it. Otherwise if you feel this bad find some new friends and take up a hobby you enjoy doing. Get in touch with your dreams and hopes again and try to for fill them.

Answer 7

If there was, we wouldn't tell you about it, would we?

That would ruin the entire point.
Lets face it.... It is our business to make sure you never learn what is really going on, so if you are determined to find out the truth then you will have to do it on your own..... without help from anyone else.

We're all in on it.

I'm going to get severely punished for telling you this much.... >_<;

Answer 8

take no notice and go for it at the end of the day it's whats inside that counts good luck

Answer 9

Dude, take it easy. You just have to hang around people you do accept you, and don't worry, they're out there.

Answer 10

There seems to be a theme hear, it is all about YOU !!!!!!!!!!