He feels threatened by my ex boyfriend I'm guessing but I have no idea why.
2007-03-16 01:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say that each relationship is different. And how does hubby know how you looked at your ex? Any way, that your ex was a lust relationship, but that there is a reason I married you (to hubby) because that is love.
Or, you could just say that be glad I dont look at you that way or you could be an ex too! lol
2007-03-16 01:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by bratzmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. In my case my husband sometimes feels he needs to live up to what my ex did for me. On the other hand he sometimes feels that my ex still has a part of my heart that he will never have. I always tell him that is this were true why would I have married him? I followed my heart and we have been married for 6 years now. I would just tell him every once in awhile the reasons that you are married to him and not your ex. You two had to break up for some reason.
2007-03-16 03:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by krimpets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really serious with this question?
If you are serious I'm amazed that you are even married. Given your other questions it is obvious that you are not prepared to be monogamous and have no understanding of a long term relationship.
That you have no understanding why he is threatened proves that. Would this be the same boyfriend that you wanted to move in?
He is threatened because you are you are thinking and acting like a wandering tramp.
2007-03-16 02:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he sees something you don't. Perhaps you do look at him differently and perhaps he's not sure of your love. Then again, he may be paranoid in thinking you don't love him like you did your ex. He's your husband and you need to have a closeness with him. You need to feel something other than "I have no idea why." When you develop that closeness, he'll stop accusing you.
2007-03-16 01:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my case I would have to agree with him. I will never look at my husband the way I looked at my ex. I don't feel as strong for him and he knows it.
2007-03-16 01:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his a** how the he** did you use to look at your ex.....guys are crazy with that stuff like the think crap up just make issues in a relationship than ask if it was such a problem why did he marry you???
2007-03-16 01:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was ever told that, I would tell them to be glad I don't look at them the same as I did my ex because I thought he was a complete jackass. Do you want me to look at you that way too?
2007-03-16 01:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would laugh, then say well thats why we call him my ex, dear as in past. tell him you love him that is why you are there and get over the past, it is gone and would love to leave it there. Good luck
2007-03-16 01:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to quit acting like a boy and start acting like a man.Sound's like he is very insecure,immauture and he need's to grow up..
2007-03-16 02:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to grow up
2007-03-16 01:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋