2007-03-16 01:25:56 · 12 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think anyone really knows who "the one" is. It certainly wasn't on my mind when "it" happen. I was dating several other girls and one, an extremely pretty girl that was hot was on my mind.
My now wife of 49 years called me constantly, we fought all the time over one thing or the other. I didn't think we were compatible because of our stormy relationship. I let it go and continued to date others with no one in mind except this hot little tomato.
My mom, Bless her soul, told me X called and was crying. My ma loved her. She wasn't the best one in the basket and I wasn't going out of my way for her.
My ma said to give her a chance. I went to see her, we looked at each other, she came up to me and put her arms around my neck and kissed me. I kissed back.
I don't know what happen but, we were inseparable after that. Something just clicked.
The little hot tomato called several times and told me I wouldn't be sorry to come back to her, she had something special for me. I told her I already had something special.
We've had five children, 14 grand children and three great grand children. I've never been sorry. I can't explain it.
2007-03-16 01:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to explain really, but he's the only person I've ever been 100% comfortable with from the start like we had always known eachother. Of course, the initial intuitive reaction cannot be trusted and I've taken a cold and reasonable look at him too and it's just so simple. It makes sense. It's almost obvious.
2007-03-16 01:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my love was the one after I got to know who he was. I spent 4 years after leaving my very controlling and manipulative ex figuring out what I wanted. I first found out what my interests and hobbies I had. I had to make new friends as we lived in his home state and the people that we hung out with were his friends. i basically had the wonderful experience of creating my life as I wanted it to be. Once that was in place and I had a fufilling and happy life I got real clear about what I wanted in a partner. I decided that I wanted someone that was Spiritual, self confident, had a game plan and was working on it ( I learned that if someone has potential that means he or she is not doing anything now), I wanted someone to share my love for outdoors, loved children ( I have 3) , had mutual respect with, compatibility, easy communication, sense of humor, sees the good in life and of course (shallow maybe) but was physically attractive to me finally I thought someone who could and liked ot cook would be a bonus. Of course that is exactly who I found (he's a chef). I knew that he was the one because he was everything that I wanted in a partner and more. Just get clear about what you want in a relationship and then if the man matches your vision then he is the one.
2007-03-16 01:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After knowing eachother for years and when i left my x-husband he was there to make shure me and my son where ok we went out then i just couldn't get him off my mind not long after that i moved out in the country to his house and we are still together and hugging and kissing all the time it has been a year so we are going to get married this is both of ours third marriage so we where both scared but very much in love you will know when it happens
2007-03-16 02:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by redneckwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew it the moment I saw his face in a picture. I was at a friends house, (of whom I just started hanging out with again out of nowhere), I was looking through her pictures of her boyfriend and all of his friends. (They all lived in Memphis so that is 3 hours from us.) And all of those guys came up here for my friends graduation. Jason, my husband to be and I met at the graduation ceremony. It was love at first sight. Despite the distance, Jason and I were inseparable. And we are still that way. We think and talk about when we met almost everyday. We had alot of fun. The best weekend of my life, because it changed my future. I couldn't be happier!!!!!
2007-03-16 01:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you just know. The feeling is different than other guys I dated, and even was serious about. It just felt right, felt natural, felt all-consuming. Still does after over 17 years!
2007-03-16 01:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I mean I guess you just "know". Sometimes you end up being wrong though. I'm not sure if you can ever be perfectly sure about something like that. You just got to trust your instincts and hopefully they are right.
2007-03-16 01:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all started in the evening of the 1930's I met the bullshit guy , was in love and got married to him and after these many years I came to know that he was the one who ffucked with my frnd after marriage. so he was the one and he had two.
2007-03-16 01:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No words to explain it. I just knew I never wanted to be with another person besides him. I couldn't be around him enough, I couldn't think about anybody else. I just wanted him, and still do 9 years later.
2007-03-16 01:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really hard question to answer because it is different for everyone and you can't really explain it.For me I knew my husband was "THE ONE"the first time I looked into his eyes and he smiled.
2007-03-16 01:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋