y does it happen when ur bf or gf is with u u care least about it but when all of a sudden u have a breakup u feel like killing urself without them .all the time u remember the even small things u shared with them and all these memories they hurt u like anything.
2007-03-16 00:59:23 · 18 answers · asked by enriquez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well the truth is that we are more vulnerable to being hurt by someone we love, we trust them, we share confidence, we are intimate, we let our hair down. We are easy targets when they don't live up to our expectations or they do something unexpected and bad, or seemingly uncaring. Does it have to happen? No, but chances are it will and it is part of life, and love and maturing in this existence called life.
2007-03-17 10:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we make such friendships we overlook many things & rely only on belief i.e., what heart says & not what mind analyses, though both deserve attention. Here lies the slip which shows such abrupt feeling which starts killing one internally. But one should be brave enough to face this too, Brush aside the past. Past is as dead as history. Make a new careful beginnig . God is greatest . He may provide u a much better one. Wise people r not hostages of the past. Not all persons are fully reliable. Sometimes in some matters nobody is reliable except your mind. Use that best. Pray God & have firm belief in him. He never betrays.
2007-03-16 01:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your honestly thinking about killing yourself after a BREAKUP then you seriously need to go seek some mental help. Try you pastor or someone close to you,but you should NOT be feeling like this. Every relationship will take its turn, hearts are made to be broken but they are also made to be healed. YOU WILL HEAL. And you will think of all the memories from you past and better your present into a better relationship with someone else.
2007-03-16 01:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sincere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because we're human with many emotions. We as human want to be accepted, loved and adorned. However, when we experience betrayal, rejection or a break up we retreat and at lost in a vulnerable state. Everyone experience theses emotions sometime during their life. Yes, it will hurt for awhile, however remember that we each grow and learn from our experiences. When there's a door shut --a window opens with new and refreshing experiences that life has to offer. Just remember the good times you've shared with your ex and move on--because that's what she done. Cheer up you have a lot to offer to someone who will want to share you for the rest of your life. God Bless
2007-03-16 15:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You truly loved them and it hurts b/c you did. I'm going thru the same thing and it is so hard to move on. Some adivce: Get back into your old routines, do things that you love ( even though it hasn't worked for me) b/c they say getting over the hurt and the pain is the hardest part. More advice: Don't listen to sappy love songs or broken heart songs even though you want to it only makes it hurt more.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-16 16:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by p_shell1987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always kind of wanted to knwo that too. Even when im the one deciding the break up, it still makes me cry. I guess letting go of something that you were used to and that once brought you joy, is a sad thing no matter what.
2007-03-16 01:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you're with someone you don't know they're there until they're gone. When you remember events that's y'all shared together it makes you think of her and how she's gone and makes you wanna kill yourself.Please don't do anything stupid they'll be the right one on the way soon for you! :)
2007-03-16 01:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by cutiegirl12349 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have gotten so used to their company and affection that we feel so alone when that is gone... Sounds like you realised that you may have loved them a bit too late...
"If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were."
2007-03-18 18:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why when u r together with someone u should love them not just play with them. Feeling should come from the heart
2007-03-16 01:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋