something very bad about women?

Question

i am 24 guy from italy live on meditreniane sea
i love women and desire them and i am very romantic also
i was so interested in myself i was going to gym to gain some muscles , make my hair lettel long ,clean my teeth every night , put perfums,shave my berd,wear good clothes,wear shorts in club and speedo on beachs and i thought that women love all these things and turned on by them but i read something very badonline which make me very sad and i stop care about my self i stop gym , i dont show my body or bulge on beach, i dont wash my teeth , i let my beard
i read that women are not visual and cant be stimulated visually and they are only emotional unlike man who is emotional , visual,physical,audioal....attracted to woman in all ways &i read that women may admire man's look but just admire not turned on or aroused as man does when he see a beautiful woman , but women only admire handsome muscular men just as seeing a beautiful car,beautiful flower.etc but not aroused
is it real?

Answer 1

It's true that most women need an emotional connection beyond simple visual stimulation. Men do have better eyesight in general, which was used in the paleolithic past for hunting. Men experience the totality of a woman's form, while women are partially blind to a man's physical attractiveness.

Don't let your appearance go to hell because of this reason. You won't respect yourself, and women can sense a man's self-confidence level.

With women, you do need a game plan beyond simple looks. Develop your talents in those areas and you will increase your liklihood of attracting a cool and beautiful mate....

Sorry if you got your feelings hurt over this. There are differences between men and women....

Answer 2

It is true that women are not as visual as men. With that said, we do care about men's appearances. Appearance is what usually gears us to men but it is the emotional connection and his personality that makes us want to stay. Don't stop taking care of yourself women do notice and like it. Put more emphasis on what is inside you because a woman wants a man with a good heart. A good body is just a bonus.

I would start wearing swimming shorts to the beach/pool though. Most women do not find Speedos attractive.