Its difficult as I have a new baby.We live with her.Working part time.My husband ,well lets just say he is his moms fav.
2007-03-16 00:54:25 · 25 answers · asked by NOONOO PIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no the strain is coming from your husband. i take it your saving money for a house? otherwise you wouldnt be living there right? move out. get a place of your own. dont forget to say thank you to your mother in law.
2007-03-16 00:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some mother in laws can be a pain. Which can be made worse by how you react or you husband reacts to things. In what ways is she a strain? She is probably only trying to help but I know sometimes you would rather not have someone interfering. There a two ways to help this go out with your baby more to get out of the house away from her and also spend more quality time with your husband. A good solution that everyone has suggest and im going to as well is to try and find your own place - yes this is easier said than done cause money doesnt grow on trees. So I also suggest your husband gets a better paid job. Also its gonna be quicker to rent then to buy. Have you tried going to the council to see about a council house? Good luck
2007-03-16 08:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either have to put up or shut up & i don't mean that in a nasty way. At the end of the day, you live in her house, so you have to abide by her rules. If you don't have the means to move out i.e. get a place of your own, then i'm afraid you'll have to put up with it. I do sympathise with you though, i'd hate to live with my Mother in Law, it's bad enough living in the same Street as her, but she's fab with my baby daughter & is always there when you need her.
2007-03-16 08:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by CHELSEAGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living with a mother in law and a husband who is his mom's favourite is not a good combination. The only solution is to leave her house and have one of your own or if she leaves in your house, find a solution and get her out of there. If she is helping you with your baby and u are really in need of her help then follow the following saying: Keep your friends close but your enenies closer.
2007-03-16 08:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by C.C. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move away from her or get her out of the house. Living with parents is never good for a marriage.
2007-03-16 07:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you live with her, that will definitley put a strain on your marriage. Think about it you now have two complete family structures living under the same roof, that doesnt work. Move out ASAP.
2007-03-16 08:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot expect anything else if you choose to live in the same house as her. You need to get your own place and a family life without her influences.
2007-03-18 12:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh... bless your heart!! What is it about mothers in law and there baby boys!? I just hope I dont do this to my sons wife someday...
Dont know the details but if she is butting in and crossing the line you will have to take up for yourself. any chances of moving out any time soon? the sooner the better
2007-03-19 15:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live with her of course there will be a strain on your marriage! You are living in her house and therefore it's her rules... The only way out of that is to move out...
2007-03-16 07:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
She can only put a strain on you rmarriage if she is allowed to do so. You and hubby need to get your own place and live your own lives.
2007-03-16 07:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋