Okay, here goes. I'm mixed latin & caucasian, & i have features of both but I strike most ppl as being "white" at first glance. I was raised more on my caucasian side, but I did have both worlds & i grew up in a diverse town. Despite who I was raised by, I still can't help but to feel confused about where I identify with, & I get confused on who I should date. I know I should go with what makes me happy, but I'm not into whites/caucasians (never was, I always liked other types) but I know its usually whites who like me, but I don't feel the same way. I like mostly hispanic, asian & black but they usually don't like me because I'm "too white" & sometimes judge me bc of that. Some help please?
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2007-03-16 00:46:34 · 3 answers · asked by Dusk 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Please understand when it comes to friends I really don't care, it's just the dating part really.
And I have nothing against whites, for the record...
2007-03-16 00:57:22 · update #1
Most of my friends are (full) hispanic & I easily fit in with them because they are open minded, but its not always easy because when it comes to dealing w/ the public, service, parties, etc I'm usually the one treated like an outsider because ppl assume I'm white. I identify as being mixed, but I know others won't necessarily agree or believe with what I'm saying. I have friends of all backgrounds, it just gets difficult when it comes to those who are attracted to me.
2007-03-16 01:04:04 · update #2
Ok, I know how you feel. I am not attracted to black men or latin. Does that make me a bad person or a racist? NO. I still think that they are attractive, I just don't want to date them. Just date whoever you want. Get to know some of these girls. Usually Latin women can tell a man is Latin a mile away. Ask some of them out. Put yourself out there. Good luck to you.
2007-03-16 01:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is sad. I hate racism. Don't try to fit in with any group. Pick your friends and or girlfriends according to thier individuality.
You like what you like and you are attracted to what you are attracted to. I am white. I have never been attracted to a man with blonde or red hair.
Hang in there. You look very young and things like this often are not as bad when you get older. Also if you go to college you will find that people there are much more open minded and diversified. Especially if you pick a more "liberal" college.
2007-03-16 07:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if someone who you like, likes you back, then they won't care on HOW you look!
Just join groups, make friends, meet new people near where you live. Also, don't just hang out with 'white' people. This will help people know taht you aren't a stereotype 'white' person whom they would classify as snobby. Forgive me for being offensive, but that is how most of the people here stereotype 'white' people. But of course, not everyone is like that. Also, about your dating prob, just date who you like and who likes you. Hope that helps..mail me for help..
~Rishika
P.S.: Just a suggestion, get rid of the moustache?
2007-03-16 07:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Simple_plan_lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋