we have been married for a fe wmonths and previous to our marriage she was in contact with her ex, but she promised me she would not do it again, BUT she has. What should i do?
2007-03-16 00:45:21 · 12 answers · asked by jane w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so what? why is it when people get into new relationships they have to dump their friends? ex or not it does happen. are you that insecure that you have to make her promise to something. you cant do that. now if she were cheating, well thats another issue. then a divorce might be in order.
2007-03-16 00:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean ex girlfriends in the best sense...her confidents, her buddies, her friends, right? Why, on earth, do you feel threatened by this? No one can be all things to everyone. You're her husband and she will manage, quite nicely, if she loves you, to put you first, but that doesn't mean she can't have friends. Can't they be your friends, too? My girlfriends make me better for my husband. I always come away from them feeling happy and light, with something funny or interesting to share with him. It truly doesn't have to be either or....unless you and she choose to live on a deserted island. You should reconsider this, dear boy. She'll only resent you eventually if you try to be this controlling. Where is the trust? Bring on the love.
2007-03-16 07:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to quit... That's bs.. No Ex whatevers should be brought up when in a current relationship.... She made a promise.. She's not respecting you... What the hell is wrong with women now a days???
2007-03-16 07:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will she also keep the promises she made before God when she married you? she seems to be breaking them already. I am for marriage but on this case, I would cut my loses!
2007-03-16 07:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has broken a promise, she will never keep a promise. put a stop to it and give her a choice. tell her it is betraying your trust and if she continues to betray you, then it was pointless getting married in the first place.
2007-03-16 07:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Miss T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's girl friends, no big deal. If it's ex husband, sounds suspicious.
2007-03-16 07:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously ask her what the deal is. Might be that it's over before it got started.
2007-03-16 07:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'she was in contact with her ex'!! male or female???
What is wrong in her contacting her ex GIRL friends?? Nothing wrong.
2007-03-16 07:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to make sure he wears a condom when having sex with her.
2007-03-16 12:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the big deal. its just girls at least its not other guys. as one guy to another guy, girls will be girls.
2007-03-16 07:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋