i am 16yrs old .my parents r abroad.i am in a womens hostel
my roomate is 17and
one night i saw that she was naked and ahe was triying to enter her finger in my private place.when i asked what she is doning whe told that it is natural and all will do like this.i was very angry at her.what should ia do?
2007-03-16 00:28:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Speak to the people who are in authority about this! Speak to the hostel management - they have authority to act upon this matter. This is a criminal offence and abuse. If they will not help then contact the social services / police.
On the smallest level - tell her you will not accept this behaviour.
pray for her she is oibviously disturbed.
God bless
2007-03-16 00:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like this an idle mind is a devils workshop either she has been sexually abused or some senior perverted have educated her in a wrong way. The only problem is loneliness and an achievement of independence from a restricting orthodox family you if you are not interested tell her clearly without hearting her that you have no such intentions. In today's world anything is possible and due to comp.and television exposure and daring in people are to such an extent that they target to achieve only the impossibilities and only that satisfies them
2007-03-16 11:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by rema e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woaa!! u were 14 yrs 7 months ago and living with ur elder bro and had just started having your periods.....
and now you are 16, living in hostel with a supposed lesbian?
really weird
2007-03-16 08:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by 2_b_or_not_2_b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her That you are not lesbian. and that you do not appreciate what she has done...
Tell her that you do not hate her for doing that and you have moved on... and that you hope that she respects you enough not to ever do it again.
make sure you are fully dressed and dint expose your body to her..
you should have never let her get that close to you in the 1st place.. but I guess you did not for-see that happening
2007-03-16 07:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by BORIS P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You age really quickly. Seven months ago you were 14.
2007-03-16 07:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by RadTech - BAS RT(R)(ARRT) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Slap her and tell her to change the room nor else you change the room.
2007-03-17 05:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was out of order and not respecting you as a person tell her you are not interested and if she carries on you can report her for sexual harrasment
2007-03-16 09:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by lisa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable, ask her to stop.
But if you are a little bit curious, you might be surprised how fun it is!
Amanda
2007-03-16 11:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it if u like it
otherwise say that u r not interested
2007-03-16 08:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by gaf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
slap her & say clearly "I am not interested"
2007-03-16 07:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋