How many of you have been in relationships with your co-worker?

Question

I am into a girl I work with.

people tell me not to get into relationship with any co-worker.

I need your opinon, if you have been in relaitonship with your co-worker or if you currently are.

how was it?

what are tthe goods and bads?

please help!

Answer 1

do it..

Answer 2

This is something that is very detrimental to both you and your co-worker. I was a union representative in a large factory. They allowed women to work for the first time since WW2. It was a trial. They did everything to make the women happy at work.
It wasn't long that things started to happen, like dating. Then couples started to disappear behind the doors. Husbands started coming to the plant and complained about their wives and men that were flirting with them. It created so many problems that the factory had to split the women up and move them from areas, around the plant and finally started to phase them out by lay-offs.
It just didn't work out. Co-workers involved with other co-workers only hurt themselves.

It led to several pregnancies, some divorces and many broken families. Today, more than thirty years later there are only a few old timers left with no new hires of women.

Answer 3

The truth is that one spends more time with the colleagues than the family members. Office love are usually crushes than real love. I have been there before. But when we went out on a official tour for three days and we shared a room we realized that we were much different people. Though we respected each other professionally as individuals we were very different.
She did not like the pajamas I wore, the way I sat after work, I did not like the TV soaps she watched and the hours time she spent in the bathroom. It was indeed a good eyeopener.

Answer 4

if you are already in a relationship with someone else, then i would say stay away! but if you're not and the other person isn't, then you have to think of the good and bad points of this. the bad side to this is that probably everyone will know that yous are involved, and if yous break up that can make for a very awkward situation. also spending so much time with the person your involved with can sometimes be worse than working at different jobs. i met my current husband at work, and we work in the same department, sometimes it can be hard, but we get thru it. good luck! and if you think its worth it go for it!

Answer 5

My guess is you've no longer some thing to agonize about. respect and admiration for a co worker does no longer recommend he's dishonest, yet inspite of this basically because she's overweight and unattractive on your eyes does no longer recommend he see's her like that. each each now and then adult men will cheat with women those who no individual ever may have guessed. My advice to you is to bypass including your gut intuition in this, a woman's intuition is amazingly sturdy. you should also look up indicators of dishonest boyfriends.

Answer 6

Never happened to me.

Just friendships.

It might be exciting at first though, but who knows for sure unless you go through it yourself, right?

A former friend & colleague of mine had an affair with her married supervisor a few years ago and he eventually got her pregnant after spending every lunch time together at her house fornicating like randy rabbits in heat.

Once he found out she was pregnant, he dumped her like a sack of potatoes, denying the child was his, etc.

Things got very tense at work and he eventually had to get a transfer because his wife didn't want him to have any contact with his former mistress whatsoever, even in the workplace.

He came back after a few weeks, regardless of this uncomfortable tension, but with his wife in tow this time (they both worked for the same company) and both carried on working as if nothing had ever happened between the two lovers.

I tried to help my friend by easing the tension, or so I thought, but she still felt cornered and eventually left the company, all because of this terrible mistake they both had made.

Conclusion: I got fired for meddling, my friend gave birth to her son and to this day, the father of her child has nothing to do with her or the boy. They had to get a D.N.A. test for him to pay child support, which he now does, as far as I know, even though my friend still lives on the brink of poverty. Of course, the indiscretion has put an enormous strain on his marriage but his wife eventually forgave him and they even had two more children after their ordeal. All is well that ends well... for some people at least!

I guess that's what happens when you mess around with married folks huh?

I sure hope your crush ain't married or engaged, for your own sake if anything else!

Good luck to you!

Answer 7

There is an old phrase about not pooping where you eat.
Folklore can be spot on sometimes.

Here is the other scenario. Perhaps one day your coworker will be an ex. Then in a meeting you disagree with them. What happens when they respond with, "you did not think that way while you were banging me!"

Best leave that one alone.

Answer 8

please don do it. If the relationship does not work out then everybody in the office will know your businessand it will be uncomfortable to work around this person. PLEEEEEEZE DONT get involved with ANY co worker. i did it and i had to get a portection order against the guy and get a transfer to another office half way across the country.

Answer 9

Me...then two kids later. It works for some and others, well lets just say..R.I.P. (really). So it's just like the regular dating world, unless there are only 5 people at your job. Then, think about how you behave when you get angry or even want him/her. How do they behave when they get angry...
So you must judge what you are willing to deal with in the work place.

Answer 10

well, obviously the bad is if it doesn't work out between the two of you.......

if you are going to be in a relationship with a co-worker, keep your personal life separate from your work life.

Answer 11

im two for two. slept with them. both bosses by the way. fired by both women, b=tches. they were fun thought but there husbands didnt see that way. if ever in situation, remember to be prepared because revenge and jealeous is around the corner.