2007-03-16 00:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by swati_0403 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you are deeply in love with that tell your brother in an assertive manner about this. he will understand your feelings.
2007-03-16 00:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by nightingale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your brother about it. If your brother loves you as a true sister, he will surely understand. Explain it to him that how much you love this guy, and how much he loves you. Since you do not have your parents, your brother has to play three different roles, thereby increasing his responsibilities, and therefore, his possessiveness. Maybe he is not able to gulp down the fact that after your marriage you will be gone from his life and he will feel lonely.
Talk to him and tell him that as a brother he will still have a place in her heart and no one can take it away from him.
It will take some time for him to understand. You need to give him some time to think over it.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-16 03:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by kchl_dk007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Swati,
Nice to hear that u r in love.Bt ur unsaid words are saying that you love your brother too much, that's great. In our real life moments come when we need to decide either this or that. You are also in that critical situation. If u really don't want to loose anyone then 1.Make yourself self dependent nd behave more nicely with ur brother.
2.Say ur beloved to be self dependent nd wait for ur brother's permission.
3Take your brother in confidence and arrange a meeting at your home nd say your brother to meet your love.
My dear now a day to search an ideal groom is very tuff.if your brother'll get a relevent match for you without any problem he'll not object. I'll pray 4U. Now get started
2007-03-17 01:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by jhilmil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a state where you cannot decide yourself. Respecting elders is good. The real and true love if it is, you ask lover to meet your brother and express the love if he is a settled person with good education, background and earning capacity. If not, even your brother disagrees and you feel sorry for the same. Instead of falling in love, face boldly and come out with success of understand the meaning of marriage and rerlationships.
2007-03-16 00:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swati,
In the absence of your parents your brother had toiled and nourished you with what ever love he could give you. Its the test for that love and actuall relation and love that you reciprocate by having faith in your brother.
It also depends on wheather you are open for such talks with him or you feel guilty/shy of it.
i would advice you to take his concorance if he has good habbits in him and he really love you.
2007-03-16 02:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very nice to hear your responsive nature , so now you must wait , till you stand on your own feet and having a respectful job carrier . Later you Will be able to convince your brother for your decision , and I am sure he will certainly oblige you .
2007-03-16 00:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear swati, you are in love thats great. if you dont want to loose either your love or your brother. then you have to labour hard. first thing what you have to do is become self-dependent. prove yourself. make your brother feel that you are mature enough to take right decision for your life.once it happen then your brother will approve your love. wish you all the best.....
2007-03-16 04:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by friend4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
legally if you are over18 than you have the right to decide for yourself. but even then you have the gratitude and sibling love to over come. the best way is to sit down with your brother and talk to him. this is to make him understand your feelings. how do you know that he will not be happy for you
2007-03-16 04:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by vighnesvaran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK INDIA< LISTEN UP!!! A MIRACLE IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN!!!!!!!!! I can relate to your plight. My brother and I were very close. If your brother has your best interest's at heart, then at least listen to what he is trying to tell you. We brothers can be very obnoxious when it comes to our sisters. Be patient with him, and realise that he omly desires the best foryou, OK? GOD BLESS YOU!!! YOU SEE ALL OF INDIA? I AM NOT A COMPLETE B*****D ALL THE TIME!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 00:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to tour brother on this topic. If he allows you to be with him, then okay, but if he don't, be with your brother because he has taken care of yours. This is my opinion. But you can do what you want.
2007-03-19 05:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Abhinav Kumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋