Okay I'm a body builder. My circle of friends are mostly gym freaks. One of my friend his really buffed and ripped. He has pleasant personality also. One day he found out his wife went out with her girlfriends to a male strip club on their girls night out. He was very hurt. Their marriage is very rocky now. None of us understand why did his wife go to places like that. What was there to look when her husband has all those muscles and that washboard abs with all the six packs.
2007-03-16 00:05:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you know what they say--" THE A-- IS ALWAYS TIGHTER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE"
2007-03-16 00:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Billie R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The strip club is the least of your worries. I'd care more about why he feels the need to lie to you and go behind your back. Maybe you're too controlling or a nag? Do you have trust issues? Are you insecure? Do you dictate his daily life to him? Men need to have some room to breathe. If you're not giving him that and EVERYTHING becomes an argument, then these could all be reasons why he did what he did. I'm not condoning his behavior, but its a product of something else going on in your relationship.
2016-03-29 01:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their marriage is hurt OVER THAT? Give. Me. A. Break. It's the same reason a guy could have the most beautiful and hottest girl in the world, and still cheat or look at another....because its new and something different. I don't condone that at all though, cheating is wrong. But, guys go to strip joints all the time, and his woman goes to one and it gets blown out of proportion. He should have been excited....she may have come home "ready" for him, but does he look at it like that? No he whines and feels "hurt" like a little p u s s y. Some "body builder"....with SEVERE insecurities.
2007-03-16 00:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by kurious kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not really about what the strippers look like. Its just a way for women to go out with friends,let their hair down and have fun.
There is nothing bad in it,don't men look at female strippers even though they are married? It doesn't mean they think any less of their man its just a night out on the town.Sounds like your friend is very insecure,and needs to grow up a bit and be a real man.
2007-03-16 00:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by tuppenybitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably wasn't his wife's idea to hit a strip joint to begin with, ever thought of that?
Or maybe she just fancied a change for one night, who knows?
Whatever it was, how far did she take her little fantasy?
Unless she actually slept with one or two of the male strippers/dancers, I really don't see what the big deal is...
Tell your friend you get his narrow-minded horizons broadened before he hits the divorce courts!
2007-03-16 00:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by Devilish Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. 1) because a strippers club is available, 2) you can't eat steak everyday.. sometimes you long to eat burgers.. similarly she went to see another male 3) what is wrong with it anyway??
2007-03-16 00:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for goodness sakes, I've been to a male review ONCE, it did nothing for me, most of those men are gay anyway, not that there is anything wrong with that, they are no threat to him, he has nothing to be insecure about, he is being a baby, albeit an arrogant one. There's more to this story, hopefully, then being so shallow that her going to a male review has made their marriage rocky.
2007-03-16 00:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I accuse this of being a lie. He's a bodybuilder, and got emotionally hurt when his wife stepped out? What planet is this?
"None of us understand why did his wife go to places like that?"
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Waste of time.
2007-03-16 00:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is very insecure. His wife went to the strip club because she likes guys that are slimmer with huge c-o-c-k-s.
2007-03-16 05:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
social pressure......
Believe me, Its not so much the body of the dancers..... girls just wanna have fun.
PS: I'm sure she appreciates her husbands body..... he needs to be more secure in himself.
2007-03-16 12:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe to have a good time? did she go home with one of the strippers?
Don't be so vain.
2007-03-16 00:11:06 · answer #11 · answered by guy o 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋