I have been seperated from my wife for 9 months. We recently decided to give it another go. We talked and both said there had been nobody else in our lives over the past months. I found out last week that she'd kissed and had sexual relations with a good friend of both of us. I don't know what to do, should I not say anything? confront her? confront him? I love her, but I'm affraid that if I do confront her that my feelings will change...but I don't know if I can live my life, even for the sake of the kids, knowing that she'd been with another man...I feel so betrayed, like every day is a lie...help me
2007-03-15 23:43:14 · 3 answers · asked by camraguybeer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well you did say you were seperated right so what does it matter who and what she did as long as she is not giveing you anything if you must know just ask her but you know you cant always believe what you hear 100% of the time ok so good luck dont dwell on the past live for today tomorrow it does get better
2007-03-15 23:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her about it, as much as it might break both your hearts, but both of you will be more relieve. After that you two can assess your answer and decide whether you still love each other and willing to go through your marriage again. Maybe she didn't tell you about the affair because she's still care about you and was doing it as the act of frustration, or if she did not regret it at all, maybe you really should leave her.
2007-03-16 07:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by shielie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she's a liar and leave her for good.
2007-03-16 06:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋