Ok so I am a junior in high school and am totally fine with myself being gay. So there is this new boy in my science class that came in at the beginning of the 2nd semester. I have gotten the feeling that he glances over at me often, and I have caught him. Now when I do catch I hardly make eye contact with in order to avoid the sticky situation. See I'm afraid that if I smile at him he'll reject that and totally stay away from me thinking what a creep to come on to a straight guy. But then again, I am not for certain if he is gay to begin with. This is not the end of the story though... I finally one day mustered up the confidence to go talk to him since not only I but my best friend had dreams about him and I. So I went up to him after class ended, almost didn't catch him if it weren't for me calling his name. So we got to talk, but not a lot since his class was just down the hall. Now unluckly, I decided to talk to him the last day of school before spring break, ughhh!!! What to do?
2007-03-15 23:02:43 · 12 answers · asked by Jean-Paul T 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ask mom and dad for guidance on this issue.
2007-03-15 23:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First are you into adult adult males? It kinda sounds like perchance you're wanting to purpose with adult adult males yet embarassed about what others will imagine in the journey that they locate out. 2d in case you at the instantaneous are not into him in any respect then you definitely opt to document him on your PE instructor or yet another instructor or crew member at your college for sexual harassment. What he's doing is considered sexual harassment, and also you dont could post with it. You suggested you cant do something to him reason your college haves a strict coverage on that form of element....with assistance from that do you advise struggling with, having sexual kin with him, or what? certain all faculties have a coverage about no sexual habit on college belongings. (PDA guidelines) even if out area of school in case you and him are both prepared and its no longer foced sexual activites they don't have any say so. you probably did say you're in highschool so verify the guidelines on your section. i be conscious of a few states the age limites are different even as its sex with someone of a similar sex as you, and some states forbid it.
2016-11-25 23:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by ecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell him you have, on occasion, seen him, what looked like, glancing at you, and you were just curious if he was or not. You never know, he could say hes not gay and thats that or it could be the beginning of a beautiful relationship. You won't know till you try. I hope you do get the boy of your dreams.
2007-03-23 18:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by guy_of_normalcy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to him and getting to know him, time will tell. Don't just ask him. Become his friend, but don't act too straight because he needs something to think about. Just enough to put some doubt in his mind. Make him curious about you by staying somewhat secretive.
2007-03-23 18:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say for sure as I don't know the guy. A suggestion would be to strike up another conversation and try becoming friends first and then see what happens.
2007-03-16 04:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's what i do. watch him around the school and see who his friends are. if ur lucky, it'll be someone whose in one of your classes, or who ur friends know. get to know his friends, casually mention you're gay (if they're homophobic chances are they wouldn't be hanging around with him) then after a week or so, ask if he's gay. they might tell u the truth, but if they say "no" almost instantly, they might just be trying to protect their friend. i know it's creepy but it works. don't watch for stereotypes like he cares a lot about his hair or most of his friends are girls, almost half the straight guys at my school are like that.
2007-03-15 23:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by RainKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just as nervous as you are. When you get back to school, just make friends with him. Hang out after school. When you get to know each other, it will be easier to talk freely.
2007-03-15 23:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Know It All 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, if he looks at you, and your eyes meet, then YOU SMILE. If he doesn't like that and stays away from you, then there are two problems solved. If he's not interested in you, then he shouldn't be looking, and it isn't rude or against the law for you to smile at anyone.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 23:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wait for when the school commenses again... I think.
2007-03-20 22:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Cheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
befriend him... if he's gay, there's potential for relationship, of he's straight, hey, you made a new friend.. don't sweat the little stuff, and it's all little stuff...
2007-03-22 01:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋