MY FRIEND IS GOING OUT WITH MY XB SHA SAID THAT SHE HATE HIM AND I ARE NOT GO OUT NO MORE WHAT CAN I DO I LIKE HIM A LOT I LOVE HIM . AND THEY ARE GOING OUT WHAT CAN I DO PLZ HELP ME OUT .
PS.HE IS HOT AND CUTE,NICE TO PLZ HELP ME OUT U GUYS ARE GOOD HELP ME PLZ.
2007-03-15 23:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
FIRST OF ALL YOUR FRIEND AIN'T YOUR FRIEND,SECOND OF ALL HE'S PROBABLY A PLAYER. I WOULD STAY AWAY FROM HIM AND LET YOUR SO CALLED FRIEND KNOW THAT YOU FEEL BETRAYED ANGRY, HURT AND YOU CAN'T TRUST HER NO MORE. IF SHE KNEW HOW MUCH YOU LOVED HIM SHE WOULDN'T HAVE EVEN STEPPED IN HIS DIRECTION. SO I WOULD TAKE HER OFF YOUR FRIEND LIST AND REFER TO HER AS AN ACQUAINTANCE FROM NOW ON. JUST BECAUSE HE'S HOT ,CUTE AND NICE DOESN'T MAKE HIM A GOOD MAN FOR A RELATIONSHIP. IGNORE BOTH OF THEM AND MAYBE IF HE WANTS' TO GET BACK WITH AND YOUR FEELING REVENGEFUL, TAKE HIM BACK,BREAK HIS HEART AND MAKE HIM CRY LIKE A BABY. OR JUST GET OVER IT GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. AFTER TIME GOES BY YOU'LL KOOK BACK AND THINK HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM ANYWAY HE WASN'T WORTH IT. IT WILL TAKE SOME TIME AND PROBABLY SOME CRYING. BUT IT'S BETTER FOR YOU TO FIND OUT NOW INSTEAD OF MARRYING , HAVING KIDS AND THEN HE DROPS A BOMB ON YOU. I KNOW IT HAPPENED TO ME. I DID ALOT OF STUPID STUFF TO GET MINE BACK, BUT THERE IS ONE THING IF THEY DON'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU ,YOU CANT' MAKE . AND WHO WANTS TO BE WITH SOMEBODY THAT DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH THEM. HOPE THIS MIGHT HELP A LITTLE , I FEEL FOR YOU.
2007-03-15 23:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't much of a friend if she's dating your X! First, find a new friend; with friends like her, you don't need enemies. Be patient; it time he may see what kind of person she really is. If he fails to see the true "her" then he isn't worth your time anyway; go find someone new. Once you've started seeing someone else, your X may decide he made a mistake by breaking up with you. Good luck!
2007-03-15 23:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is talk to your friend. Tell her that you are uncomfortable with her going out with him. At the end of the day though, sometimes it is just one of those things that you have to accept.
I hope your friend agrees to stop going out with him if it upsets you, but if she doesn't stop, then try to be happy for them both. They must both be good people otherwise you wouldn't like them, so try and be comfortable with it.
Good luck whatever happens.
2007-03-15 23:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
what would u do if you were in her possition and u really liked one of her ex boyfriends, you cant just "stop liking someone"
its more complicated than that
let her do it, because if u lose her as a friend and get back ur boyfriend u might break up again, but ur friend will always love you
friends are for ever, boyfriends arent
2007-03-15 23:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your EX boyfriend, get over it and move on. You always want us after you see someone else with us. you'll probably be alot happier too. Enjoy you singleness!! Go party!
2007-03-15 23:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by spiritius4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid both of them unless you are prepared for a fight.
2007-03-15 23:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, he is your ex so this is PAST, move on. If it didn't work out with you then maybe it will with her?
2007-03-15 23:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything.
and B.T.W if i were you i won't consider her as my friend anymore, just ignore her.
2007-03-15 23:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by nora s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch them both
2007-03-15 23:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by otsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with him, she likes him, what do you think she should do?
2007-03-15 23:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by sphe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋