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2007-03-15 22:46:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
how to show interest?
2007-03-15 22:46:24 · update #1
eye contact and glancing at that
special some where,
usually opens things up.
2007-03-15 22:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by john john 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should know what turns you on! I guess you show interest by asking the other person about himself, then following up on that answer with another question. Start a conversation & get to know each other. Open-ended questions are better. If you ask a bunch of open ended questions and keep getting one-syllable responses then he's either busy with something or not interested. The next step is showing physical affection. Start small - a pat on the back, a lingering handshake, if all goes well escalate that a notch (caution, you may not want to do all this on the first meeting).
Most important: Somehow make it known that you are gay. The other person's reaction will let you know better if you should even try to flirt. If he responds in a homo-phobic manner then that is a definite NO answer, don't you think? If not, still proceed with caution, he may not be gay but not care that you are....
Finally, ask for a date! Good luck.
2007-03-16 05:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nadine - Unity CEO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question really depends with the attitude of the guy you want to flirt with. If ever you still don't know him that much, I suggest that you go an a safe side. Try to find a common denominator and try to shift the conversation slowly to something that is romantic. If he's more confortable talking to you, you might throw some signs like dirty jokes.
Also when you talk to him - look straight at him and give him your cutest smile. I'm more than sure that this trick will work.
2007-03-16 05:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Señorito Archer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ur a guy. just think, what would turn u on about another guy? for me, the perfect flirt woould be someone who aproaches me first, is funny, touches me only slightly like on the shoulder or elbow, and doesn't act to desperate or cocky. see how easy that was? of course everyone is a little bit different so don't go to far into specifics, try to get as much information as u can about the guy just by studying him, then go for it.
2007-03-16 06:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by RainKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a gay guy you mean?
Even straight guys only flirt with other guys all the time lOl! Or it sounds that way to me
2007-03-16 05:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first make sure he swings that way so you don't get hit or anything lol. once you find out he does just start talking to him. if he shows interest make a move if he doesn't first. if he doesnt act interested he might still be but just very shy, you could try asking him.
2007-03-16 05:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by princess1226 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
best way too flirt is get a hot hung cute one strip nakked in your shower, and invite him in too take hot shower, you will be more than flirting with a hot hung strip downe hunk in your showeer etc.
2007-03-16 08:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile a lot at the guy, be around him a lot, find ways to invite him places to be alone, touch him a lot
2007-03-16 10:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is talk to him under the stall in the bus station while you are looking thru the hole in the partition
2007-03-16 05:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by dwjohnsonkonduz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you say make it funny but sound sexy. thats what I do.
2007-03-16 05:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋