hi friends, recently my bf and i broke up.it happened like this. i'm 4 years elder to him (i'm 26 and he's 22). he confessed to me tht he likes me and i felt very comfortable with him and his maturity.he told me if we ever broke up tht's the worst pain he's ever have 2 go thru.my parents recently arranged a mariage proposal for me but i rejected everything coz of him.past 2 weeks he never called me and whenever i call him, he's not answer. i was so hurt and in pain.he used to text or mail me tht he was bz.just 2 days back, he sent me a message saying "Let's call this r/ship off as i'm busy with my work".(he takes care of his dad's biz).does all guys who are bz dump their gf's?i was so hurt and till now i can't recover. just 5 minutes back he text me and asked me tht he wishes to buy my notes for his sister as she wants to study the same course as me.what should i do. my tears are stil not dried and i can't forget him. shud i plead to him tht i still love him?
2007-03-15 22:34:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as much as hard as it may seem to get over him it looks lik he has moved on. I think however if he is still friendly with you you should let him borrow your study notes....but then again he did dump you over a txt which is a huge negitive.....good luck
2007-03-15 22:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by spongify_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't plead with him, he will drift still further. Maybe he does not love u, and u can't plead for love. Maybe by handling this situation maturedly and in a sophisticated way, u can win him back. U can also act busy for some time, till u pick up your directions.
2007-03-16 05:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let go. When committing to you he wouldn’t have thought much of the future but you were older, you should have known better!!! Now if he says he is done with you then wonder whether he ever did love you to begin with!!!!!!
I think you should hold your self together and get thru this and move on with your life!!!! There’s more than 1 fish in the sea!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 05:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it is his father, who is pastering him to break off with you. At times, due to family's indulgence, one backs out and sacrifices his/her wish for the family. From what you have written, I do not think he has forgotten you as he is in touch with you. He wants notes from you for his sis. Why does not he get from someone else. This proves that he has feelings for you and that you should also try and understand the situation he is at present facing.
I trust everything would turn out well.
Best of luck.
2007-03-16 05:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS BEEN 5 (FIVE) MINUTES!!!!! wow. i've been over it for 3 minutes. catch up. im sorry he dumped you, but ITS BEEN 5 NO , 7 MINUTES!!! SEVEN MINUTES......!
so now go and change his ring tone (both text and voice, cover your bases.) to byonce;s "you must not know about me" this should help you think correctly when he calls or texts you begging your forgiveness
2007-03-16 05:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope... hes usin u.. he never did love u.. cause if he did he'd have fought tooth n nail to be with u........dont beg please for him to love u .. youre jus gunna give him more power n control and hes gnna make u feel like ur not good enough for neone......... just let go of him.. u deserve better..infact call him if ur strong enough andtell him to " **** off i dont need u " im a guy n if i treated a girl like that n she responded liek that id be smashed and wonder if im a man at all !!! dont u wanna make him feel like that?? hes not a man and if i have any self respect............. u kick his *** and let go of him !!
2007-03-16 05:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want you to go to him and say :" if you still love me and want me then tell it to me, i know you have issues with your father and i respect that so if you want me to wait for you then i will, but if you don't then am getting married, i don't want to wait for a long time to get my heart broken and my life wasted. i want to hear the truth from you."
this is what you should do, when you get the answer please tell us coz you broke our heart with your story. I wish you luck.
2007-03-16 05:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by lunacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya move on or tell him before you move on tell him i love you if he says no i dont want you move on np no big deal
2007-03-16 05:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by abdalla m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S NOT FULLY COOKED YET, JUST MOVE ON DARLIN, THERE ARE TOO MANY OTHER GUYS OUTTHERE WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOU, AND TREAT YOU BETTER!!
2007-03-16 05:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋