if you are a young woman (22), beautiful, kind, loving and try to please him in all ways- never saying no to intimacy with him... how to prevent him from wanting another woman ?
2007-03-15 22:15:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey, if you are really that worried that he'll cheat there's not a lot you can do.....correction, there's nothing you can do.
This is just one of those times you're going to just have to trust him & grin & bear it I'm afraid.....
If a guys gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat, it makes no difference how beautiful, kind & loving you are & makes no difference how much you make love.....drop the idea Babe, that if a guy cheats it's because his wife or g/f is doing something wrong.....it more often than not has nothing whatsoever to do with it.........most men & women blame the reason for cheating on their partners, but it's just a cop out.....
So IF he should cheat, it has nothing to do with what you are or are not doing....
KB
2007-03-15 22:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can't is the simply answer. if some1 is going to cheat they will do it regardless be it in Asia or down the road. if he wants a another women, it is not necessary a reflection on u, he could just be unhappy i the relationship or he is just a cheat, i know it is not right but some guys do sleep around but still love their girlfriends very much, illogical, i know but true. if you feel you do everything for him as it is and he still runs off, then cut him loose, don't lower your self respect and dignity, let him do what ever hes going to do, walk away if your have to. remember you'll still have your sanity and health.to be honest the way you've phased the question "how to prevent him cheating" makes me think that 1 you don't trust him anyway and that he is the kind of guy to cheat on you, maybe even already has done?? if so don't go there. good luck though.
2007-03-16 00:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My point:
lol...if he wanted to cheat he could have cheated where he is..why have to travel to Asia to cheat??
yes it's easier to cheat in Asia because the girls are cheaper...and are more willing to please...lol..
if he has in mind to cheat he will cheat...
to prevent him from wanting another person... create a cosy home for him and to bind him with his own flesh and blood..once he bonds with his kids..he will always come back..
to be independent...to show him yes I do love you but if you are not around I won't cry a single tear...
to bind is not to bind physically...bind by letting him know ...no..you cannot find anyone else as wonderful as me...bind by letting him miss you and his cosy home..so that he will want to finish his business trip early to come home to be with you ......
My husband have been back to Vn 3 x now..each time only staying for a few days...he rings every day and his kids all take turns in saying how much they love him...
His sisters and nieces tease him..as one time he cried because he was missing us...:)
I trust him so cheating is not an issue...and if he did so be it...just remember to wear protection so he doesnt bring diseases home...he knows my view on cheating
he said to me...if you can guarantee I can find a better person then I would cheat...or else it's a waste of time of my time..
for men cheating most time is a physical necessity..a need to destress...lol...when they cheat because they think they love a person then you are in big trouble...
2007-03-15 23:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by dewdrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of preventing anyone from cheating. People stay faithful because they love their mate, respect their mate, and do not want to hurt them.
I have to say that your marriage does not seem very secure. Trust is a huge part of marriage. No one should be married unless they feel that they can trust their spouse. If you are that worried about your husband cheating, you need to re-evaluate your marriage.
2007-03-15 22:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can try locking him with a gents chastity belt, and only u have the key. If u still do not feel safe, hide a chip in the belt, so u can monitor and know that he is not tampering with it. He will come back to u without cheating, even if he wishes.
2007-03-15 22:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a guy - why are you so obsessed with "a young woman" being cheated on (or not) by her husband? Very strange.
Nevertheless, you cannot legislate, or dictate, morality. A person will make personal choices based on character and circumstances.
2007-03-15 22:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry! i be conscious of it really is quite painful, yet you want to be sturdy and go away him behind. i do not opt to damage your emotions, yet no longer in person-friendly words did he disrespect you with assistance from dishonest on you yet he had the nerve to have unprotected sex with this woman. This damage on your heart will under no circumstances flow away, he ought to nonetheless be in his boys life, yet i don't believe of you should stay with him in simple terms by way of little ones. He has maximum in all probability cheated on you formerly, yet you in simple terms under no circumstances got here across out. Kick him to the size down for strong, and that i imagine the great element should be a divorce, I stick with the putting forward "once a cheater continuously a cheater", and do in simple terms no longer ignore that this isn't your fault, and also you've gotten executed no longer something to prevent it, some adult adult males are in simple terms ill pigs with out appreciate for themselves or their kin.
2016-11-25 23:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by colyar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young beautiful, so what are you doing with a man that has little respect for you. You ask for advice but really will you listen to anything that anyone says. My advice to you should you choose to take it is leave this man before you have children or he gives you a nasty disease, there is the right man or woman out there for everyone, they do exist, trust me i thought i'd never find mine but i did. GO FIND YOURS.
2007-03-15 22:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by baby fat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon if you have to ask this question there MUST be trouble in paradise. You cannot STOP anyone from doing anything and if you are 22 and don't know that you are too immature to even be in a relationship!
2007-03-15 22:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop anybody from doing anything! you just need to relax my dear and trust your husband show him how fabulas you are and if he loves you and everything is right in your relationship he wont cheat! always remember trust is one of the most key componates in any relationship and if u dont have that you have nothing. trust him!
2007-03-15 22:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋