im going out tomorro nigh with my best friend we always have a good laugh. theres a man who i know likes me a lot he always makes a play for me and iam flattered but ive got a boyfriend who hardly ever compliments me or makes a fuss of me wot should i do if i act on it theres no going back help
2007-03-15 21:54:29 · 18 answers · asked by showmethemoneygolddigger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would!!!!! if this other guy can make you happy and satisfy you go for it. life is too short to be with the wrong person and not be happy. your boyfriend doesn't have to know unless things get serious with the other guy, then by then you will be happy with the new one. you deserve compliments and it sounds like your boyfriend doesn't know what he's got
2007-03-15 21:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by princess1226 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U should first talk to the man to make sure that he is willing to accept u. He may be married or fixed. Being polite to u and complimenting u, does not mean a committement of love for a life time or so. Every man compliments the wives of other men, seldom his own. So, act wisely, don't foolishly throw away what u have in hand, unless, u are sure of getting a better deal.
2007-03-16 05:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation, I too have a boyfriend and I have comtemplated on acting on the problem I have. I have spent the last few days thinking things through, my relationship with my boyfriend, do I see myself with him in 5 years etc. Sometimes we row and fall out, others we have good times. My bf does the exact same to me always says things to try and upset me, doesn't take me out places etc.
If I decide that I should go ahead with persuing this other guy, that likes me to, I MUST without a doubt finish with my bf first, because I would expect him to do the same, instead of cheating. So I guess, that if you want to persue this guy too, you must end it with your boyfriend, put yourself in his shoes if he was to find out you cheated. not very nice is it? good luck.
2007-03-16 05:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to dump your bf bcs he makes no fuss about you?
Are you sure this new guy makes a fuss ONLY about you?
Chk out your own answers and decide.
2007-03-16 05:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, not flatteries from boyfriend is okay. Just let him know that girls like to be complimented as times. Don't kill this relationship and begin another not knowing if the grass would be greener.
2007-03-16 04:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU Make a fuss over your Boyfriend
2007-03-16 04:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Shaz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things don't seem to be working out with your beau. Break up with him before things get sticky. If you cheat on him, not only will he be hurt, but you will feel guilty for the rest of your life.
2007-03-16 05:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by adriannamarie19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r not married to this guy why is there no going back? Date ...have fun... If you really care 4 your boyfriend you will not want to hurt him so then don't act on it!
2007-03-16 06:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your boyfriend? If so then I suggest you talk to him about his lack of intimacy. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable or thinks you will blow him off. On the other hand...if it isn't love then I see no harm in looking for someone else.
2007-03-16 04:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no going back if you act on something like that.
You need to ask yourself what it is that you really want out of your boyfriend and if he's able to give it to you.
2007-03-16 05:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋