whenever a younger one commits a mistake he/she is always scolded by the bigger one but when the bigger person commits a mistake he/she is not scolded ?why the bigger one are not scolded like younger in a mistake.
2007-03-15 21:37:51 · 9 answers · asked by AaSHEK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you mean elders when you say bigger. Anyway, that is how society and family values are. When people are very very young, they don't know the ways of the world and have to be scolded by their elders if necessary. The elders have more experience and would scold the youngsters when the latter strays and not unnecessarily. You do know that when the same youngsters do well they are showered with love. Scolding is an equal component of parental love and affection. When a person grows up, he/she might politely point out the mistakes if any, to their elders. It wouldn't be considered wrong or unhealthy by reasonable people. Rather they would take it in their stride and rectify themselves.
2007-03-16 05:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Modest 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haaaaaaaaaaaaaa
but yaar in my case it is not like that i always do the wrong thing and my mother and other elders scold my elders. and i feel so happy
i think you should know some acting and so that you can show that u are the most Innocent person and other can scold your elders and not you
so dear start taking advantage of your younger age
and hav fun
2007-03-16 05:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's news to me
i always used to think the younger ones are more pampered and allowed to do mistakes without being scolded but the older ones have to suffer if they do something wrong as they r supposed to be the role models who should always be right, shouldn't do anything wrong........
2007-03-16 05:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by greenlisted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bigger one is also scolded if younger one has power, calibre, responsibility & authority. It is that set up .
2007-03-16 08:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blinders need to come off. The bigger bully doesn't have to be taller, stronger, male, older or fatter.
It's interpersonal behavior. However you set up, that's the way it works. Get what you need out of your relationships, ask for more if you aren't getting what you want, and above all be fair to each other.
2007-03-16 05:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because his parents aren't paying any attention to him. If they were he wouldn't be the one who had to scold his younger brother--his parents would do it.
2007-03-16 04:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because bigger person blame younger person,younger person knows less than bigger person, young person get butt whipped, any more questions???????
2007-03-16 08:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bcoz the bigger one can get condemned and insulted by the society or by the laws or by their childrens.....
It is like they says....
"The first part of your life is spoilt by your parents, while the next part by your childrens."
2007-03-16 07:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by naafraat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because the older ones r experienced ones....... but the young one can change and adopt themselves to the changing scenario...wat do u feel it is good to change and prosper right ...so if someone says ... accept it ,it should be for good
2007-03-16 04:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋