two years ago i suffered a horrible break up where i felt I was nothing. I was even admitted to the hospital because i tried to kill myself. so I met this cop that likes to cheat on his wife, he was using me strictly for sex. I just thought she didn't give it up to him, come to find out she does, she wants it all the time. so why was he so after me. after I found out he was still married ( cuz he told me he was seperated ) I was crushed. I wanted him to leave his wife and be with me. I even offered to help take care of his kids with him. why would I let myself go that low to sleep with a married man. I got feelings for him though and so I would't stop. to me it wasn't just sex it was more.
2007-03-15 21:35:33 · 10 answers · asked by princess1226 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah i have been friends with this guy for almost 3 years now and hes not married but is living with his daughters mom they dont get along but stay together for the little girl so much wasted time let me tell you but i have been having an affair with him off and on for over 2 years and we care about each other and we have feelings for each other he just doesnt want to hurt his daughter so i set my feelings aside because of his kid it sucks but she wont be a child forever hes not married they dont even sleep in the same bed together so i am not worried about nothing deep down i know he loves me its just the timing is way off so yes i have had an affair well still am
2007-03-15 21:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think everyone has an affair or wishes to try it at least once to feel like belonging to some one...some times an affair can get out of hand..not many men will ever leave their wife for another woman, but it has happened, when they dont leave their spouse,you are the one who is hurt and used..feelings go way beyond sex after a point..sorry you got hooked up with a married man.. maybe you should make sure he is single before having sex with him.. but if marriage doesnt matter, then just continue doing it..
2007-03-16 05:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't ever had an affair on my husband but I have cheated in the past and I heard the same kind of lies and it's just not worth the trouble and heartache, you feel used and the men don't care about you at all.
By question to you is: Why would you want him to leave his wife? So he can do that to you?
2007-03-16 05:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Before my husband died, all men looked like toads by comparison. He's been gone 9 years and I still don't think the scenery has changed much. But then, after you've had perfection, it's really hard to lower that standard.
If you love your husband, be there for him and stay with him. If you aren't married and are fooling around with married men, stop. It only makes you a homewrecker - regardless of who started what.
2007-03-16 05:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by amishpantry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have had several affairs and it is not something i would tell every one to do. i was very very unhappy in my marriage so I turned to sex to get some attention and it did make me feel good but what you are feeling is lust or what some would call puppy love. but hon the best way to fix that problem is to get a "BOB" battery operated boyfriend that way you dont have the problems of a wife or what ever.
2007-03-16 11:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by lz_adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was punishing his wife. you were looking to make sure you were still wanted.
I was still married but legally separated and wanted to see if I could still bring it. Now I'm legally divorced and it's harder to find dates! I hate to say this, but a ring on the finger brings out the naughty in those so inclined.
2007-03-16 04:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the truth now, so why persist in the relationship. Unless it is for casual sex I can understand but you got emotionally involved and are looking for more and is not going to happen.
Leave him and look for someone else. Dont waste your time
2007-03-16 04:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i had an affair and for me it was just the excitement to see if i would get caught but the think is..... either the guy or the girl ALWAYS goes back to their other.
2007-03-16 05:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by sarah l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sociodependant. Get some help.
2007-03-16 04:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-16 08:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋