I dunno what to do; I just love a man with long hair, sexy eyes and ladies' clothes (not really dresses, but womens' shoes, blouses, etc.) I've never really been attracted to an actual WOMAN though. I really need some advice, am I a repressed lesbian? Am I confused, or what? ':0
2007-03-15 21:26:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its completely normal.everyone has their preferences and they differ from individual to individual. who cares ? there are men like you described so go after one !
2007-03-15 21:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish that there were more women like you!!! You are just the kind of woman that I would love to meet and be with. I enjoy dressing in woman's clothes and would love a woman that wanted to dress me. I have long hair and sexy blue eyes that look great in make-up.
You are not confused, you know what you like and what turns you on. Its just different than what most are willing to admit and that's the conflict. I don't think that you are a repressed lesbian, you love the fact that it is a Man dressed in women's clothes,
2007-03-16 08:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by cowboy32220 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not see anything wrong with being attracted to feminine men. You are a girl, and he is a guy, right? There is nothing wrong. It could be that you are impressed that a man can wear a womans cloth but can still make you have a crush on him as a man. Well, good luck!
2007-03-15 21:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by SquareGuy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least he's a man and that's something to be thankful for. Maybe you just like him because he's a nice guy. It's not impossible to like somewhat in spite of their looks not because of them. Is he still masculine? Is he attracted to women? Has he got a sex drive--that's attracted to you, not other men?
Cross dressing is a problem if he does it outside the home. If he just cross dresses when you are around--and you can stand it--then it's not a problem. If he takes it out into public then he could possibly be an embarrassment for you if you marry him. You have to decide what you can stand.
2007-03-15 21:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are. Don't over analyze this stuff TOO much. Yes, this may be some manifestation of some terrible childhood trauma, however, maybe you're just attracted to "different" people. It's clear you are not happy with the people who you are attracted to, maybe you should see a mental health professional about this. I wouldn't turn to the knuckle heads on this site for to much advice on your mental well-being.
2007-03-15 21:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by THUB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why we are the way we are, I say dont fight it and dont think about it to much if thats what you like then cool, just be yourself and stop fighting it, as long as these men arent gay you should have a good time, go shopping together. there are some straight guys that like to dress up, I'm sure they would love to have a girlfriend that understands.
2007-03-15 21:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by mdgbear68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol no. you just like a guy who isn't afraid to show his feminine side. "Metro-Sexual" is what they're called. and why wouldn't you? They don't watch sports, so they can focus more on you. They'll know about fashion and your mother will probably love them because he'll be so nice to her. I'm gay and I'm attracted to masculine men. Does that make me a repressed heterosexual?
2007-03-15 22:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by RainKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're bi-sexual or maybe not. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. Maybe it's a temporary thing. Attraction is not something you decide. It's not a choice. You can't help who you're attracted to unless that particular person does something to kill the attraction.
If you like those kinds of guys then seek them out, but try to be open to others.
2007-03-15 21:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he like both men and women or just is he just in drag and gay? Don't feel bad just try not to be a lesbian but be bisexual when it's convinent that way any possible situation can work out,
2007-03-15 21:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt it, I suspect you are a women who is attracted to feminine men. There are a lot of straight males who enjoy looking feminine. There are a lot of men who are attracted to 'tomboy' women as well.
2007-03-15 21:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by mjb63114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you think you need help - I'm attracted to feminine men as well and I don't see anything wrong in that.
2007-03-15 21:58:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋