Gay men tend to be very ATTRACTIVE, very polished, very intellectual..
I like those qualities....
(im a girl)
2007-03-15 21:24:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ultimately, what is the point ? You know thay are gay and there will be not even any beginning - For your eyes only. I will not go for them (gay), I rather not waste my time atrtracted to gay man. I rather focus on single straight man instead.
2007-03-15 21:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I think it's neat to feel this way from a far because I agree that they are very polished but is it gay men in particular or just straight guys with some of those same qualities??
2007-03-16 04:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by hailey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. theres nothing absolutely wrong in it. on condition you dont "act" on these attractions. Remember gay men are not into GIRLS. what you experiencing is normal, but should you feel you cant cope with these feelings-speak to someone who may help. Gay men usually represent what we all are looking for in men. they seem much more nice and gentle. and generally better to talk with. easy going etc. like the saying goes "why are all the nice men taken or gay"...thats not entirely true though. they ARE good men out there. acknowledge that it is not gay men you attracted to, but their QUALITIES. this will help you find what you are looking for in a man. good luck. :-)
2007-03-16 04:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by A P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, nothing wrong with being generally attracted to gay men. But the problem might arise if your fantasies get a little wild with them. The only thing would be they may not share your fantasies, or desires. In which case, you could feel, well, a little left out of the action ;-)
2007-03-16 04:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my! Me too! I've liked two gay guys by now! I don't think there's anything wrong with it because those are desirable qualities, for sure. The only thing is the obvious: they could/never will like you back! That part is unfortunate! They can make great friends though!
2007-03-16 04:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kaylie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, yes they are nice looking usually, but unless you are a gay man yourself, then you will be continually disappointed.
there are some straight polished guys out there, but face it, they are still men and probably not as nice and tidy as you'd like.
I bet a lot of gay guys are not as nice and tidy as you'd think.
Anyway, it's ok to look, but if you are a straight girl then you want to stick with straight guys because no matter how cute or funny or nice or smart you are, you are not going to "straighten up" a gay man.
2007-03-16 04:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by notsureifimshy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you attracted to gay men, or their qualities? if you like how gay men are intelligent, witty, attractive, hygenic, and respectable to women, then it's not their sexuality that appeals to you. what you should go for is metro-sexuals. these guys have all the qualities of gay men, but they like women. look it up
2007-03-16 05:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by RainKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only in the sense that it's liable to lead to a lot of frustration. If you are content to admire men from a distance, then you're fine. Just don't start thinking that you can 'convert' them-- that tends to get ugly.
2007-03-16 04:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by mjb63114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt not it being wrong. Straight women can be attacted to each other without having a desire to want to have sex with them, and the same holds true with straight men.
2007-03-16 04:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time on them when you know they have no time for girls like you?Look for straight men that is where you love is.
2007-03-16 05:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by mukwathagicu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋