I find myself continually, and strongly attracted to men who are old enough to be my father, and nobody else. Is something wrong with me?
2007-03-15 20:45:56 · 10 answers · asked by ssmith 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No, I am 39 and their is a girl from down the road with a big crush on me.. You are looking for a stable guy and you know guys your age are mostly idiots.. I know this and can say this because I was one of them.. Now I am flattered at this girls crush and constant flirting But my wife is my wife and their will be none of that. That is another reason you may be attracted to us older fellas.. We are more faithful, tend to be less jealous have Good Jobs etc.. Now if you look at my photo you will see I am also not half bad looking... Some of us age well and try to take care of ourselfs... I say go for what you like.. Then when you are in your 40's you can go chase the 20 year old boys.. You know, teach them a thing or two.. I remember my Mrs Robbinson Days working as a life guard at an upscale hotel. What fond memories.. Have a ball Honey
2007-03-15 20:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As far as I know and read, there are queries like yours in countries. I don't know why, I suspect it's one of the sequels regarding the funny, weird novel "Lolita" by Vladimir Nabokov in the 60's-70's that might inspire oldish people to be good looking and handsome in the eye of some young girls. However, to be fair to both parties, I think human friendship is always all right once both know each other by sheer best wishes and honorable obligation.
2007-03-16 04:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Arigato ne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Age is nothing but a number. Trust me on this one, I'm just like you. I'm eying someone I'm not supposed to who's like 46 or 47.
2007-03-16 03:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal, im attracted to older men too(but not old enough to be my father).........point is...yea its ok....
2007-03-16 04:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.
You just crave some one to care for you, someone mature (who will not play games with you) and someone who is solid and will protect you.
You are quite normal - don't worry!
2007-03-16 03:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Life's a beach 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No way, whos to say who you can and can't be attracted to?
2007-03-16 03:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.Even older men are good looking.
2007-03-16 03:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can be attracted to anyone.
2007-03-16 03:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think so - I'm in the same spot as you oftentimes, anyway!
2007-03-16 04:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Cedar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally gross
2007-03-16 03:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by LadyK 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋