this is a long distance relationship (bf & gf), ur financially stable and he lost his job. he asked you to shoulder his fare cost in visiting you coz he has no money, is this ok?
2007-03-15 20:36:53 · 5 answers · asked by laiza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Relationships are about give and take. When you're down I'm sure he'd take care of you. The visit would be beneficial to both of you, so why not?
No need to be old fashioned.
2007-03-15 20:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say NO if he extremely loves you he will understand rather of having dissatisfied. the foremost concern which could be on his concepts is calling yet another activity. you do no longer prefer to open a door which you won't be in a position to close. First its a cost ticket then that's going to be paying his hire or utilities. be careful, in case you pay for the cost ticket while he gets there you would be procuring each and every little thing by way of fact he has no money!!!!! procuring 0.5 the cost ticket is o.ok. yet footing the invoice is yet another concern. talk to your boyfriend approximately this and ask him to attend some weeks until now a bypass to( which will supply him the prospect to discover a job). he's barely a boyfriend, if he became your husband it could be a distinctive tale. good good fortune
2016-12-14 20:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really depends on how he was with you when he had a job. If he was the type to always pay the tab on whatever you did together, I don't see a problem with helping him out. You shouldn't just turn your back on him because he is having problems. Ask yourself would he do it for you, if your answer is yes then you've answered your own question.
2007-03-15 20:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by berrymya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should really not ask you that...how long have you been dating? If he lost his job and this is a one-time thing, then ok. But if he expects you to totally float his trip (food, lodging, fun, etc) then forget it, its NOT ok. He would be using you.
2007-03-15 20:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ok. he can wait until he afford to visit u. what kind of boyfriend is he? if he really a good man, he sould realized it. its kinda sad to realize that ur boyfriend "begging" for money. sighz!
2007-03-15 20:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋