Do you ever look back and it bothers you, does it shut you off emotionaly in some way if you look back. Or is it simply a decision that needed to be made at the time. I'm not for or against it, just wondering how people feel about it years after they do it.
2007-03-15 20:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by shadycaliber 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I had one several years ago, I was on BC (with the lowest possibility of getting pregnant) I was ill and I was told that I would never carry a healthy baby. I made the mistake of not telling the babies dad until after I went through it (we were on the outs), it almost killed our relationship. It put that stress of what else am I not telling him. I still have my moments of what if I didn't, watching my sister giving birth a year a go was the best and the worst day of my life all in one. I too remember those "anniversary" dates and they are hard, regrets no...sadness yes.
2007-03-15 21:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it would bother me when I thought about what things would have been like if I didn't have the abortion. I have a one year old boy and a two year old girl and my hands are full. At the time of my abortion, I didnt want to go thru with it, but sinse I had already just had two babies back to back, my body needed some time to heal. It does'nt realy bother me now because I am so busy with my two little ones to even think about it anymore.
2007-03-15 22:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Beautifull 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I only had one several decades ago. It's a reminder to keep your legs together if you can't be responsible and have safe sex.
Doesn't bother me a bit.
There are too many unwanted kids out there in the foster system. I don't need to have a biological child to be a loving mom. Considering over-population and global warming? I did the world a favor.
2007-03-15 21:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
i know a couple who have had at least 4 abortions because they were too drunk/stoned to use a condom or just didnt care. they c it as simply a birth control option. that p***es me off. but in cases of rape or incest u have to wonder what the most appropriate action is. i guess in that event it is a personal decision
2007-03-15 20:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its just a good example of how liberalism is destroying society. Abortion is used as a form of birth control, rather than people being responsible for their actions. Personal responsibility is the enemy of liberalism.
2007-03-15 20:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan _ 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I ve had 3 abortions in the past 2 years. I dont feel any remorse or guilt... if i had those babies, having a mom like me would have messed up their entire lives. am the kind of mom that u hear of in the childhood of serial killers
2007-03-15 20:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by kitten 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
depends on the amount of common sense you have. would bother me more if i'd had a child and couldnt support them properly, or worse, that i gave them away knowing they were out there somewhere without their real mother. we are overpopulated as it is.
2007-03-15 20:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
rephrase
2007-03-15 20:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋