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for example:

hard butch
soft stud
stone femme

I don't know all of the labels or their definitions but I know there are more than the ones I listed. I'd like to know. Yes, labels are sometimes bad but not always the case.

2007-03-15 20:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

labels aren't always bad in the case someone labels herself/himself for example when someone calls themself submissive or dominant or butch vs femme.

2007-03-15 20:47:15 · update #1

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Labels are only words—and words when chosen carefully
usually do communicate more effectively than silence.
Here are some good possible reasons that some people decide to call themselves queer, lesbian, bisexual or gay:

To protest against our homophobic society's attempts to dictate who we can or cannot love.
To let others know you've stood up for your right to love and make love to anyone you care to.
You admire the queer, lesbian, bisexual and/or gay community and want to become or remain a part of it.
You don't know how to repress your same-gender sexual feelings and you feel it's better to acknowledge and come to terms with them than to go on denying their existence.
To be honest about your past same-gender sexual feelings and/or experiences.
To experience what it's like to be given a stigmatized label, and gain the knowledge, emotional strength and self-reliance that comes with that experience.
You don't feel like bothering to argue with others who label you as queer, lesbian, bisexual or gay.
To be able to make snappy comebacks like "Yes, I am queer, and being queer is a good thing to be!" or "That's Mr. ****** to you!"—because whether or not you actually consider yourself queer, responding to homophobic slurs by saying "No, really, I'm not queer" wouldn't sound very prideful and would never convince anyone anyway.
It scares you to say the words "I'm queer" to yourself, and you don't like being afraid of things, and you know that the only way to overcome any fear is to practice doing the thing you're most afraid of.

Here are some labels:

Agendered

Ambigendered

AndroButch

AndroDyke

AndroFag

AndroFem

AndroFemButch

Androgyne

Androgynous

Bear

Bearded female

Bigendered

Bless-gendered

Boi

Boidyke

Boy dyke

Boy girl

Boychick

Butch

Butch dyke

Byke

Chick with a dick

Cross-dresser

Crossgendered

Drag king

Drag queen


Drag queer


Epicene

Eunuch

Female guy

Female impersonator

Femme

Femme queen

FTF/F2F

FTM/F2M

Gender-atypical

Gender-bender

Gender blender

Gender-blessed

Gender complex

Gender-confused

Gender-confusing

Gender-deviant Gender-different

Gender-enhanced

Gender-fluid

Gender-gifted

Gender ******

Gender outlaw

Gender subversive

Gender-variant

Gender warrior

Genderfree

Genderfucker

Genderqueer

Gendertrash

Girl boy

Girlfag

Guydyke

He-she

Herm

Hermaphrodite

Intergendered

Intersexed

Intersexual

Liminal-gendered

Male lesbian

Man/boy with vagina

Midgendered

More-gendered

More-than-gendered

MTF/M2F

MTM/M2M

Nelly fag

New man

New woman

No-ho

Non-op

Omnigendered

Othergendered

Pangendered

Passing woman/girl

Polygendered

Post-op

Pre-op

QuasiFemale

QuasiMale

Shape-shifter

She-bear

She-male

Stone butch

Supragendered

T-girl

Third-gendered

Tomboy

Tranny

Trannydyke

Trannyfag

Trannyqueer

Trans

Trans-something

Transboy

Transdyke

Transensual

Transexual

Transfag

Transfolk

Transgendered

Transgenderist

Transgirl

Transkid

Transman

Transperson

Transqueer

Transsexual

Transvestite

Transwoman Tranz

Trisexual

Two Spirit

Ungendered

X-tra/Extra-gendered


I was labeled by other people. My label for myself is ME.

2007-03-15 23:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Orditz 3 · 0 0

Labels, though sometimes used in a negative way, are not always bad things. They help give definition, but shouldn't be used to define.

Technically I guess I am a pansexual genderqueer. Both somewhat new terms for the LGBT community, but before I heard them and knew what they meant I always felt like I was floating somewhere separate in the community and didn't fit in the community at all.

I always consider gender identity last when meeting someone, I mean, I love women, men sometimes too, trans people, drag queens and kings, anyone. Not just one gender or type appeals to me. I am more than bisexual. I think its closed minded to call me so.
As for my gender identity... I do identify as female but I don't necessarily feel like a girl. When I was little I thought I was a boy until I learned the difference. I am like a gay man in a woman's body, a drag king who loves men... transsexual in both directions. A woman spirit who is a man, who is a woman's body.

Pansexual genderqueer. :)

2007-03-15 21:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 1 0

those days I felt like the loneliest one. someone i respect as someone, without labels and in the most acceptable thanks to love yet another human being, appeared to hate me. and then I heard that he felt like the affection human beings have for him would not count number, or that it replaced into an phantasm. I felt beaten. yet, the sentiments I had were no longer lengthy gone, nor diminished. easily, in the face of this assumption of falsehood they grew more acceptable. I recognized how a lot the affection, the worrying, even the straightforward acknowledgment concerns. I did experience lonely. fortuitously, I had others to help me deal with this. i guess I live on on giving out love, yet strengthen upon receiving it to a level.

2016-12-02 02:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I don't like labels. I hate it when someone tries to apply a label to me. I'm not a 'bear' or an 'otter' or a 'daddy' or a 'twink' or anything. Why do people feel it necessary to fit into a narrow pigeonhole? I would rather be my own, original person, made up of lots of different kinds of elements.

2007-03-15 20:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by pasdeberet 4 · 1 1

I don't think I fall into the regular LGBT labels, but yeah people do call me a nerd! :-|

2007-03-15 20:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0 0

I dont need or want a label-Im one of a kind!!!

2007-03-15 20:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Shaggy 2 · 0 0

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